How to avoid swallowing sperm during oral sex

Introduction: When it comes to the duration of oral sex, no two sexual partners' sexual responses are exactly the same. Even the sexual response of the same sexual partners cannot always be exactly the same under any circumstances. That is to say, the time required for the sexual response of the same man cannot be as punctual as a train timetable. It can fluctuate due to tension, fatigue, interest, alcohol or drugs, frequency of recent sexual activities and other factors, and it can be long or short, so it is impossible to give an accurate numerical concept.

Only by learning and becoming familiar with the characteristics of your partner's sexual response and establishing some special language, sounds, and actions for timely communication to prompt each other, can you grasp the right time to stop. In fact, a man will always be aware of the moment when ejaculation is approaching, and he will express it intentionally or unintentionally, such as saying something, making some noises, or even roaring, breathing shallowly, suddenly accelerating his movements, or pressing your head against his body. These are all clues that his sexual response has reached a point of no return, so it is not difficult to seize this opportunity.

In addition, it is also important that both parties communicate this in advance, letting him know that the woman cannot accept the man's wishes in her mouth, then the man will generally respect the woman's choice and avoid this situation. Some women think that semen is a great tonic and have no problem with ejaculating in their mouths. That’s a different matter. Different people have different preferences. Therefore, it is important that two people have sufficient communication before sexual activity, such as their views on oral sex, needs, possible situations, whether they can accept and adapt to it, etc. Preparation is the key to success.

On the other hand, men should not just ignore the woman's feelings and forcefully ejaculate into her mouth for the sake of their own momentary pleasure of orgasm. It is best to ask the other party in advance whether it is allowed to do so, "Can I cum in your mouth? Or somewhere else?" Various sexual activities between sexual partners should not only be healthy, but also democratic, and should fully respect the wishes of the other party. You need to use your imagination to activate, enrich and enhance your sex life, making it more intimate, smooth and hot. To achieve this goal, communication is undoubtedly a necessary prerequisite.

Some people also say that diarrhea will occur within a few hours after swallowing semen. If this is true, then the constipation problem can be solved. Unfortunately, this is not the case. The incidence of gastrointestinal problems such as nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea associated with swallowing semen is unclear, which may be related to the fact that people rarely discuss oral sex openly. If diarrhea really occurs, it may be related to an allergic reaction, that is, an allergy to seminal plasma protein. With more exposure, the allergic reaction may gradually alleviate or gradually worsen, resulting in nausea or diarrhea. Allergic reactions to semen can also occur in other parts of the body.

If this is the case, then you should avoid swallowing semen, and if problems arise, you can use histamine blockers to treat it. To swallow or not to swallow, that is really a question. If diarrhea is a real problem and cannot be overcome, then it is better to switch to masturbation stimulation to help him reach orgasm when he is close to ejaculation (this situation is especially common during the woman's menstrual period, pregnancy, postpartum period, etc. when it is not suitable to have sex.)

In short, swallowing must be voluntary and not a forced thing under pressure from the man, nor is it a deliberate imposition of humiliation.

Of course, it may also be caused by anxiety or other emotional reactions, that is, some sexual situations may serve as triggers. Triggers can be smells, tactile sensations, sounds, or anything that can bring back past negative experiences and cause emotional and/or physical reactions. This phenomenon is similar to what you experience when you try a new food or when you experience a trauma, to name a few.