How to deal with long distance relationship

I believe many people have experienced long-distance relationships, which also have many troubles. When you need each other the most, he or she cannot be by your side. He or she cannot share happy or sad things with you. You cannot meet for a long time and can only contact each other through phone calls and the Internet. There will definitely be many problems over a long period of time. But what should you do with a long-distance relationship? How can you make a long-distance relationship have a happy ending?

Many times we all know that the results of long-distance relationships are not very good. Many end in breakups. Even relationships that have lasted for many years cannot withstand the test of long-distance relationships. Lovers are very painful. Those of us who are in long-distance relationships should learn more about what to do in long-distance relationships and better maintain our relationships.

First: Make good use of the short message function of your mobile phone and send it whenever you have time without affecting his work or study. This will show that you are thinking of him and he will immediately feel your presence. Even if he has some ideas or is doing something that may destroy the relationship between you, he will restrain his thoughts. And if you have ever had the experience of eating or walking with someone and he keeps sending text messages, you will understand how unpleasant this is for the other person. Even if there is someone else with ill intentions trying to poach your partner, their enthusiasm will be temporarily lost when they see this situation. Of course, he may be muted. If he doesn't reply to many messages you send, then just call him after you've confirmed that he should be fine. Everyone knows what to do. In short, mobile phones are good things.

Article 2: Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, except for old lovers, things will never happen during the day, but always at night. So remember to send a text message every day saying goodnight and make sure he sleeps where he should. If you are stricter, he is not allowed to go out alone with the opposite sex at night. If you have something to do, you must say hello in advance. Even if you go out, don't forget to remind him to return to the dormitory late at night. Be lenient when necessary and strict when necessary. If he doesn't listen, you may make a fuss. Tell him that you will do what he does. Put yourself in his shoes. We all have a conscience.

Article 3: If he and his ex-lover are in the same city, be more tolerant. Make sure he can openly tell you about his normal relationship with his ex-lover. Even if you are angry, don't say it. It is a bit unfair, but if he doesn't tell you anything, the situation will only get worse. You should know that you are not by his side after all, and if you try to pull at this unbreakable thread for no reason, it will only become more tangled, and in the end you will hurt others and yourself, and even ruin your own love and push him to his old lover. Generally speaking, not many people go back to the past. Chatting with old lovers is simply because of the past so everyone can talk openly and happily. Of course, everything has a limit. If you go too far, you have to pull it back. Making a fuss is the best way to pull it back. I think everyone has some experience with making a fuss, but as I said, everything has a limit and you have to control it yourself.

Article 4: Love must be expressed. No matter how long you have been talking, remember to say it often. This is how the passion of an old couple is cultivated. No matter whether they are men or women, no matter how many times they have heard the three words "I love you", they will always be happy. In a long-distance relationship, you should talk to her even more since you can't see her normally. If you don't tell her, how can she know that you love her?

Article 5: Always put yourself in other people’s shoes and do what you want others to do first.

Article 6: Maintain a certain frequency of meetings, preferably once every few months. The pain of lovesickness also needs to be released. A few days of sweetness can make up for the lovesickness of the past few months.

Article 7: If two people are open and honest, it is best to take the initiative to tell each other what you are doing and where you are. This way both parties will feel at ease. And once this becomes a habit, the possibility of being poached will be greatly reduced.

Article 8: If you love him, you must trust him. After all, we are in different places, so it is impossible to see his every word and action every day. Unexplained suspicion will ruin the sweetness between the two of us.

Article 9: You should always consider the bottom line in everything to prevent yourself from being caught off guard by sudden changes. Things should always be done in a good direction, but you must be prepared for the worst.

Article 10: Long-distance relationships are most afraid of anger and misunderstanding. If there is anger and misunderstanding for a long time, the poacher will take advantage of the situation. Make everything clear, be rational after the emotional part, and admit your mistakes. Of course, if no one is willing to give in, boys should not give priority to ladies at this time, and we should be proactive where we should.

Long-distance relationships must be able to endure loneliness. What should you do in a long-distance relationship? I believe the above introduction will be of great help to those who are in a long-distance relationship. Communicate more, consider the other party first, and be more understanding. If you choose a long-distance relationship, you must be able to accept many problems of long-distance relationships and be attentive.