Six "don'ts" in couples' lives

A healthy sex life means that both parties can relax. In the ocean of sexual desire, you will feel very happy when you feel the romantic ocean that the other person has laid for you. During the process, men pay more attention to ejaculation, because medically speaking, holding back on ejaculation can cause prostatitis, which is very harmful; women pay more attention to the process, and this requires both parties to communicate with tacit understanding. Of course, you cannot just let the other person guess your thoughts. You must express to the other person what results you want to achieve. Then, just enjoy the sex! However, many people do not pay attention to some details that cannot be ignored. Let's take a look .

1. No kissing during sex

Studies have found that many people (including women) do not kiss their partners during sex. The reason is that the sexual posture is not conducive to kissing each other, or you are too eager to reach orgasm.

Advice: Experts believe that the lack of kissing during sex can reduce emotional satisfaction. The best way is to add more kissing during foreplay.

2. Not giving your partner a heads-up before orgasm

When the climax is approaching, it is best to give your partner some hints, such as "I'm almost there", "I want it", "Here it comes", etc., and your partner will naturally understand.

Suggestion: Some couples will have tacit body language cues before climax, such as habitually biting their ears.

3. Put your full weight on your partner

Sex should grasp the rhythm and changes in body positions. When adopting the "up and down position", avoid pressing your body completely on the other person for a long time. It will affect the other person's smooth breathing, destroy their sexual interest, make it difficult to display their movement skills, and make it difficult to devote themselves fully.

Suggestion: When adopting the "upper and lower position", think more about the other person's feelings and gently raise one arm or leg to relieve the pressure of weight.

4. Biting your partner too early

Some people like to use "biting" to express intimacy, but biting your partner before he or she is aroused will only scare him or her.

Expert advice: It is best to wait until your partner is fully aroused before gently biting their ears, shoulders, neck or other parts of their body.

5. Focusing only on sexual organs

The role of sexual organ caressing in the sexual process is self-evident. But at the same time, you should not neglect caressing and stimulating your partner's sensitive parts such as the knees, back, and abdomen.

Suggestion: Caress and stimulate your partner's sensitive parts such as the knees, back, and abdomen, and encourage him/her verbally to say which part of his/her body he/she likes to be stimulated the most.

6. No Words Spoken

When a partner feels satisfied, everyone likes him (her) to say it out loud, because a gentle moan or expressing feelings is the best affirmation and encouragement to a partner.

Tip: Expressing your feelings, whether it's a whisper or a shout, is the best relationship promoter.