Gender secrets revealed: 70% of men want to sleep in separate beds for three reasons

Introduction: For Chinese people, the traditional custom of husband and wife sleeping in the same bed has been passed down through the ages and has become the basic rule of the two-person world in people's marriage relationships. However, in recent years, there are more and more cases of couples sleeping in separate beds and using separate quilts. Although modern people are generally under great pressure, sleeping in separate quilts or beds can avoid disturbing each other and improve the sleep quality of both couples. However, sleeping separately at the same time can easily create an emotional gap between couples, reduce the opportunities for love and affection, and may cause the relationship between couples to become cold.

So why do men choose to sleep in separate beds from their lovers?

70% of men said: "As long as everyone can sleep well, what's wrong with sleeping separately?"

30% of men who participated in the survey are in favor of sleeping in separate beds. After all, sleeping is just a way to rest. Why should we be so particular about the form and location? As long as everyone can sleep well, what's wrong with sleeping separately?

There is another option of men who sleep in the same bed but with separate quilts, which is nearly 40%. Most men want to sleep in the same bed with their lovers, but cannot be so intimate with them! Sleeping in the same bed with separate quilts ensures that lovers can snuggle with each other during the long night, while satisfying each other's needs for personal space. It is indeed the best way to sleep.

Sleeping in separate rooms and beds loses the meaning of marriage

The simplest explanation for a couple is people who sleep together. If they sleep in separate rooms, what is the point of getting married? A five-minute communication between a couple before going to bed will make their relationship more stable, so communication before going to bed is very important. If you sleep in separate beds, you lose this opportunity. Over time, they do their own things and don't care about each other, and the relationship between the couple will become more indifferent. Today's society is very stressful. Couples are mostly busy with their own things during the day. If they even have to sleep separately, how much time can they spend together every day?

What do men who sleep in separate beds do?

Hypothesis 1: After fooling around and coming home, my wife is so tired

Men always like to go out with a large group of friends and have fun, playing rock-paper-scissors, drinking and doing all kinds of things. What women really hate most is when they see their drunken look coming home after fooling around, and of course they can’t let their wives see it.

Hypothesis 2: You will meet a beauty when you are alone in bed

Many men have their own "close female confidantes". Most of the time, they will not confide their worries to their girlfriends, but will talk endlessly to their so-called confidantes. If you don’t want to be discovered by your wife, it’s a good idea to sleep in separate beds.

Hypothesis 3: Fear of being criticized for being incompetent, so he DIYs it himself

I will never understand why men would still watch porn and masturbate even after they have a steady woman. Is it that I can't satisfy him? Or are men just lustful by nature?