5 truths every woman in love should know

There are different ways to fall in love, and there are as many ways as there are people. What kind of relationship style do you adopt? No matter what, the desire to be happy is the most important thing. But "happiness" comes from your inner feeling, and it is actually not that simple. Because it often happens that there is a huge gap between ideal and reality. If you deal with and overcome these difficulties with optimism, and at the same time make an effort, even a little bit, to change for the better, then no matter what kind of love you encounter, you will definitely be able to enjoy the sense of accomplishment of love.

For example, no matter what social environment we are in, we can meet different women: some are always passionate and energetic, and calmly look at and express their true selves; some can openly talk about their beliefs without hiding their inner feelings; some are intellectual and smart, but also sexy and pathetic; there are also those who are indifferent to the world and believe that there will be a man in the world who is seeking happiness like herself and is waiting to meet her. If you are such a woman, you must have enjoyed enough love. If not, then you should know the following 5 love truths, which may bring you closer to your ideal of becoming a successful woman.

Truth 1: Lovers are not saviors

Do you think that as long as you have a lover, your life will become richer and more interesting? Maybe you think that most women will more or less accept this view. However, this is not the case. The only one who can make you happy is yourself. So please stop fantasizing and waiting for a prince charming to drop from the sky who can fulfill all your wishes.

Truth 2: A relationship is not a transaction

It is generally believed that in modern society, not only in romantic relationships, but in any kind of interpersonal relationships, so-called interests and exchanges are inevitable. What do you want to get from love? Is it financial benefits, or spiritual comfort to relieve loneliness? If you think seriously about what you want, you may soon change your original idea. Love is a process of spiritual sublimation, which is manifested in people in love working together and growing together.

Truth 3: Life only matters today

Are you obsessed with the future outcome of your current relationship? “Will I really marry him in the future?” or “Will the person I choose be rich in the future?” Or, just don’t dwell on the past “That person used to be so gentle” or “Oh, I’ll never meet someone as good as him again.” If so, please focus your attention on yourself at this moment. Let go of the past and stop worrying about the future. The reason is that only you are the most wonderful now.

Truth 4: It is almost impossible to change someone

Many women around the world are trying to change their boyfriends to suit their preferences. Are you expecting: “Baby, if you love me, you will definitely make changes according to my preferences.” However, the probability of achieving expectations is very low. Why? Because the only one who can change yourself is yourself.

"I hope you can change" is just your reason for thinking so. Even if you tell the other person everything, don't have any expectations of him changing. If you really want to change your man, you must have a passion strong enough to change his beliefs in life. But if you really have that much energy, you might be able to put your efforts into finding another partner who is more suitable for you. By the way, "Women expect change, while men hate change" seems to be a universal truth that applies to the world at all times and in all countries.

Truth 5: There is no absolute guarantee in love

Even today, people still swear to pledge "eternal love" at their weddings. But there is nothing in this world that can be guaranteed to remain unchanged forever. No matter how much your lover swears to you: "I will love you forever!", this is true today and now, but in the future, perhaps everything will change. Looking at all things in the universe, including human beings, they all seek development through change. Even in a romantic relationship, change itself is often a necessary process for both of you to make mutual progress. If you want your lover to love you forever, the only way is to love him sincerely every day.