Don't give in blindly. There are 4 moments when women must show their power.

As the saying goes, "Men cannot be spoiled, the more they are spoiled, the more they become bastards", so in love life, blind indulgence and consideration may not be exchanged for a man's cherishment and love, and sometimes it will even make him make mistakes again and again. So when should you choose to forgive and when should you not give in? The editor reminds you of the following 4 occasions when women must show their power.

1. He would rather spend money recklessly than manage his finances

When this happens, you need to have a serious discussion with him about money and then make a rule that you must ask each other before splurging on anything over a certain amount, or that you open a joint account to pay for your common expenses. If he still doesn't abide by your agreement, then you can take action.

2. He complains about his work all the time

If he is dissatisfied with his current job and wants to seek better development opportunities, you should support him as much as possible. But if you hear him complaining every day and never see him do anything to improve the situation, the fierce tigress in you will come out, and the only way to get him out of his current situation is for you to become strong.

3. Frequent contact with ex-girlfriend

When this situation first starts happening, you can ask him in a friendly manner: "I saw that you were in touch with your ex-girlfriend on Facebook. How is she doing lately?" This will let him know that you have noticed, but you don't take it too seriously. But if their contact becomes more and more frequent, and even some ambiguous words appear, or if the two of them meet frequently, then you should think carefully about how to protect your love.

4. You want to get married, but he doesn’t say “I do!”

You have been in a serious relationship for a long time, but you have never mentioned getting married. Then try to have an open heart conversation with him. If he avoids answering your question, don't continue the topic for now, but start bringing it up more often in the future. If you've been together at least three times and he still shows no sign of wanting to get married, or if he says he wants to marry you but has never proposed, then you need to set the rules of the game.