8 things women should not say

1. Don’t say discouraging words

Some people often like to say discouraging and discouraging words. In fact, we should accept encouragement from others in life. Even if no one cheers me up, I should encourage myself. If you don't encourage your own ambitions and instead say discouraging words, you will certainly fall into depravity.

2. Don’t say anything that’s against your temper

When people are angry, they often speak negative words unconsciously, which sometimes hurt others and sometimes hurt themselves. When people are angry, it is best to remain calm and not speak casually, because the words said in anger are often unpleasant to hear, so they should not be spoken.

3. Don’t complain

When people are dissatisfied, they often complain, resenting their supervisors, friends, and even their family members. You often complain, and when others hear it, they take advantage of the situation to make mischief, saying that you want to deal with this person and that person. In the end, you will suffer the consequences yourself. Why bother?

4. Don’t say hurtful words

Some people are frivolous, lack respect and tolerance for others, and often say hurtful things to others in their conversations. Sometimes, they harm others to benefit themselves, and sometimes, they harm others without benefiting themselves. Verbal insults can only hurt others temporarily, but when your personality is looked down upon, the damage is permanent.

5. Do not brag about yourself

Some people like to promote themselves, boast about themselves, and exaggerate when they talk. Others will definitely not agree with them. Therefore, self-exaggeration is of no practical benefit but will harm oneself. If a person wants to be great, he must accomplish some great things; greatness should be praised by others, not self-aggrandizement; it is better to be humble.

6. Don’t speak untrue words

Among the “Five Precepts” of Buddhism, “Precept against Lying” is one of them. False speech means “seeing and saying you don’t see, not seeing and saying you see; saying yes when it is yes and no when it is no”, which is also called “lying” and is untrue speech. If we keep telling the lie of "the wolf is coming", it will bring serious consequences. There was originally only "one plane", but it was said to be "eleven planes", and finally it became "ninety-one planes". What a terrible rumor this is, and it is a false statement.

7. Don’t talk about confidential information

There are many secrets between people, including family and company secrets; businesses have their own secrets, and countries have their own secrets. Nowadays, all countries attach great importance to the protection of confidentiality. If you leak confidential information, you will be severely punished and bear heavy criminal liability. Therefore, we should develop the habit of not speaking confidential information casually. Before you disclose confidential information to others, you should first think about the possible adverse consequences and know the seriousness of the consequences, so that you will not speak carelessly.

8. Don’t talk about private matters

Everyone has privacy. Of course, you don’t want others to know your privacy, and you can’t tell other people’s privacy. Even if you reveal other people's privacy and do not provoke a counterattack from the other party, you have exposed your own dishonest character. People live in houses not only to shelter from the sun and rain, but also for safety and, most importantly, to protect their privacy. People wear clothes, on the one hand, to keep warm, but also to cover their bodies and hide their private parts. Therefore, people should respect each other and not expose other people's privacy.