Women can also "play with men" in bed

With the development of the current era, girls are no longer reserved. They have evolved from strong women in their careers to tomboys in life. Of course, they are not far behind in love. In the past, expressions of affection were limited to men, but now many women are one step ahead of men and take the initiative to express their affection to men. So how should a woman express her love? Today I will teach you a few tips.

What should women pay attention to when they actively express their love?

1. Treat the disease with the right medicine: Is he a man with very traditional ideas? For example, if he feels that you taking the initiative will make him uncomfortable, then give him a process to accept you. Remember, after all, not all men like women to take the initiative in this regard.

2. Distinguish the time: Sometimes, he likes you to take the initiative, and sometimes he desires a situation where he is not proactive. Specific situations require specific applications. Remember, the most taboo thing is to take the initiative regardless of the occasion and situation.

3. Find out the code of your love language: Do you have a tacit understanding with him? Is there a tacit understanding that he will understand you with just a body movement? Try to cultivate the code of your love language, so that he can take the olive branch of love you pass over in time.

4. Maintaining a sense of mystery: It is said that one of the important reasons why Yang Guifei always maintained a sense of mystery in front of Emperor Minghuang of Tang was that she would rather not be discovered by Emperor Minghuang every time she took a bath. What you can't get is the best. Understand men's psychology, and sometimes you should take the initiative and play hard to get. Saying "you want" in a roundabout way is more charming than saying "you want" directly.

5. Use eyes instead of words: A very important rule between temptation and being seduced is: everything is implied without words. You don't have to use words. Sometimes, your eyes are the best weapon to express your love. Seduce him until he feels he must take action.

6. Initiative is not barter: Initiative is indeed not for exchange. Please do not hug him or ask for sex just for his fur coat. Over time, a man will feel that you are blackmailing him and that he is paying for sex.

7. Men have the right to be impotent: Even if you take the initiative, if he is in his menstrual cycle, don't force him. Men have the right not to get erection, and this is how a society of gender equality can be achieved.

8. Don't forget to negotiate on an equal footing: When wild girlfriends are all the rage, wild wives seem to be in fashion as well. However, taking the initiative is not being overbearing. When you, like a man, are eager to practice a certain skill, remember, have you negotiated with him? Do you know what he likes? Every man and woman has their own sexual taboos, so don't touch them.