What do men hate their girlfriends hiding from them?

"I thought she wouldn't hide anything from me," the man was surprised when he found out his girlfriend's secret. Depending on the content, it may even lead to a re-examination of the relationship between the two. So, what kind of secrets are unacceptable to men? Japanese portal website Livedoor published an article listing the secrets that men hate most from their girlfriends.

Question: What’s the most annoying thing about your girlfriend trying to hide something from you?

First place: Cheating 57.3%

Second place: Debt 14.6%

Third place: Plastic surgery 8.7%

Fourth place: Smoking 7.8%

Fifth place: Peeking at your phone 4.8%

6. Gambling 3.9%

7. Masturbation 1.9%

8. Buying high-priced goods 1.0%

It is understandable that being cheated on is the top priority when you are in a relationship. But there are other reasons why it can be hated, let’s take a look at why.

First place: Cheating

"Whenever I think of her having contact with other men, I feel uncomfortable. I instantly feel like I have rejected her as a person." (35 years old, mechanical-precision instrument, salesperson)

“This is a betrayal that violates integrity.” (28 years old, small shop, businessman, service industry)

“This is proof that she no longer loves me.” (32 years old, small shop, businessman, service industry)

Because cheating is the most damaging to the trust between two parties, more than half of men believe that it is difficult to forgive. To be honest, if the other person no longer loves you, there is no need to cheat. Just be honest and break up peacefully. This will not hurt the man's self-esteem.

2. Debt

“Because I don’t want debt to be the cause of everything.” (29 years old, medical benefits, professional)

“I hate people who can’t manage their finances properly.” (34 years old, school education related, administration)

"When the money is gone, the relationship is over." (22 years old, mechanical-precision instrument, salesperson)

Whether you can arrange money reasonably within your income range is a very important criterion for choosing a partner when you are dating with the intention of getting married. It is hard to imagine marrying a woman who secretly owes a lot of debts behind my back.

Third place: Plastic surgery

"Plastic surgery is the only thing I hate the most. Although I like her current face, if it was plastic surgery, how is it different from fraud." (27 years old, IT information industry, technician)

“Because it can’t be changed back.” (35 years old, transportation-warehouse, other)

“Because I like her current face.” (37 years old, communications, technician)

Micro plastic surgery has become quite popular recently, but for men, it is difficult for them to accept their girlfriends having surgery on their faces. Although the surgery is easy and does not take long, you should still consider it carefully before undergoing plastic surgery.

No matter what, whether it's cheating or borrowing money for reasons of hardship, it seems that being kept secret by a girlfriend is something that will annoy men. Girlfriends should be able to understand how regretful and angry their boyfriends are before things become like this. It would be great if they could discuss it with them frankly.