The essential difference between male and female sexual desire

There is a big difference in sexual desire between men and women. As a couple, you should understand the differences between the sexual desires of men and women. Only by understanding the sexual characteristics of both parties can you make your sex life harmonious and happy.

Let’s talk about men first. Although men mature 1 to 3 years later than women, their sexual desire is generally stronger and more vigorous than that of women after maturity. Before marriage, almost all men experience nocturnal emission, and some even masturbate. A man's sexual excitement is mainly manifested in the erection of the penis, which can immediately arouse sexual impulses through visual, auditory and tactile stimulation, and it only takes one or two minutes. Once sexual desire is aroused, orgasm can occur within a few minutes, manifested as ejaculation. After ejaculation, sexual excitement quickly subsides.

After marriage, when the couple has sex, the man's sexual desire still comes quickly and is very strong, just like before marriage. Once he has the desire for sexual intercourse, he always hopes that his wife can satisfy his needs. But after reaching orgasm, sexual desire subsides very quickly. It comes and goes as it pleases. In addition, men's sexual desire is more focused on the contact of sexual organs and can be easily satisfied.

And women. After women reach sexual maturity, their sexual desire develops slowly and is more hidden. Except for a few individuals, they generally rarely show sexual impulses such as masturbation. Most women's sexual excitement comes from sexual experience. After marriage, the sexual impulse of women comes slower than that of men and is also weaker in intensity. Women's sexual excitement can only be gradually aroused by sexual stimulation from men, such as kissing, hugging, touching the sexual organs, etc.

Female sexual desire is also related to the menstrual cycle. Generally, female sexual desire is stronger before and after ovulation and before and after menstruation, and weaker at other times. A considerable number of women do not feel pleasure in sex in the early stages of marriage, and it takes about a year before they become interested in sex. It is relatively difficult for women to achieve orgasm. Some women don't know what an orgasm is until they have children. Some women have never experienced an orgasm in their entire lives. Of course, most women can get the pleasure brought by sexual orgasm with the cooperation of their husbands. During sexual intercourse, once a woman is sexually excited, it is slow to disappear and she often maintains the excitement for a long time. In addition to being reflected in the feelings of the sexual organs, women's sexual desire is more about the pursuit of emotional satisfaction. In other words, sexual life is a human instinct. When they reach a certain age, both men and women will have sexual desire, which is a normal physiological phenomenon. A high degree of combination of sex and love. So they behave more affectionately and not as impatient as men.