Women with "three highs" only cohabit but do not marry

For a long time we have been saying that men only want to live together and not get married, and that women suffer greater harm from cohabitation. However, we don’t know that many women nowadays also only want to live together and not get married, especially those with "three highs". The so-called "three highs" women refer to those with high education, high income and high position.

Why do people with "three highs" prefer to live together rather than get married? Let's learn about their inner world with the editor today!

Just for freedom

In fact, in the late 1990s, it was still unacceptable to most Chinese people. However, judging from the current situation, cohabitation is no longer a serious problem. Some women have considered getting married, but feel that getting a marriage certificate is just a formality. What's important is whether the two people can get along well, so they simply continue living together.

The fear of being bound by marriage is the primary reason why most women with "three highs" dare not step into the marriage fortress. Financial independence is also the primary basis for these women to choose cohabitation. They think that cohabitation does not necessarily mean "one person depends on another person". More people think that cohabitation is just a personal lifestyle and has nothing to do with morality or character.

For the main ball business

For these women with "three highs", they attach great importance to their careers. Sometimes the excitement brought by pursuing career success is obviously higher than the stability and satisfaction brought by marriage. The high expectations of themselves and the huge real-life pressure make women with "three highs" devote almost all their energy to work.

There are many women who have this mentality. They believe that due to the influence of physiological factors, social environment and other aspects, marriage has a certain negative impact on the development of women's careers. For these "workaholics" who have ambitions to be strong women, it is not uncommon to choose to live together instead of getting married.

Take responsibility for the quality of your marriage

The climax of sister-brother relationships has passed, and most people have begun to accept it. However, for the parties involved, the age gap is actually an obstacle to marriage, especially for women. I always feel that my boyfriend is younger than me and I am always afraid that he is not mature enough. In particular, I feel that his current thoughts and work are not stable, so I dare not get married easily.

Secondly, after spending a long time together, both parties in love will find that the other party has changed compared to when they first met. This may be a problem that most people will encounter. After all, getting to know someone cannot rely solely on passion. Living together allows you to observe and test a person closely. The divorce rate for marriage partners chosen in this way is generally lower.

However, women with "three highs" have independent thinking and solid economic strength after all. They have nothing to worry about and can accept all the consequences of cohabitation. This does not apply to all women. Therefore, you must think twice before choosing to live together.

At the same time, experts pointed out that sexual relations are inevitable in cohabitation, and perfect sex is the perfect combination of body and mind, which requires not only physical enjoyment but also spiritual satisfaction. Once any problems arise in cohabitation, it will affect the feelings of both parties and the quality of sex.