After that night, men will never indulge you again

When desire strikes and men are in bed, it is extremely difficult to get them to take the initiative to express their love. Moreover, women are naked in bed, so some small problems will be magnified. Women, don't expect men to indulge you in doing these seven things when you go to bed.

1. Don’t expect a man to condone your bad habits

Most girls care about personal hygiene, especially when having sex in bed, but there are always individual cases. Some women do not pay much attention to their personal hygiene and have many bad habits in life.

In the early stages of a relationship, both men and women tolerate each other's bad habits. He may quietly help you clean up the room, or perhaps wash your stinky socks. However, once he knows that his girlfriend's position is unshakable, he will find ways to restrict and transform you. This is a common problem for all men. Although men are carefree, they are unwilling to spend their lives with a woman who has bad habits. Especially in bed, when they see you being sloppy, all interest will disappear without a trace.

2. Don’t expect a man to acquiesce to your rendezvous with an ex

Women are naturally sentimental, especially when they meet their old lovers, most of them will be self-indulgent, thinking that the man with whom they had a relationship will always retain some feelings in his heart, and they think that the man who loved her will still love her. This is not a common problem among men, but a common problem among both men and women.

Regardless of whether they are dumped or the one who dumped them, lovers are most likely to keep in touch with their ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends after breaking up. But a man's inner emotions are extremely selfish. He may allow himself to meet with his old lover in secret, but he cannot tolerate you to meet with his ex-boyfriend.

3. Don’t expect men to always believe your lies

We all tell some white lies in love or marriage. Although the lies are well-intentioned, they are still lies after all. Don't expect a man to always believe your lies.

Women who have experience in love know that although men cannot help but lie, they are definitely not that easy to deceive. Although men also like to hear sweet words, it is not that men do not know the deception of your sweet words, but he does not want to expose you, who told him to love you so much?

4. Don’t expect a man to take the initiative in bed

Most women believe that no matter how capable a man is in bed, it is useless, because most women need men to tell them before going to bed whether they are willing to make any sacrifices for them. If it is just for fun, many women will leave you, unless there is a deal.

But the fact is, few men will take the initiative to express their love to you in bed. It's not that men are unwilling, but when a man's desire comes, he can no longer hold back, let alone say sweet words to you and actively express his love to you.

5. Don’t expect a man to love you forever

Women are more realistic than men. When they are in love, they will consider the daily necessities of marriage. They will not just want to spend time together like men do. Therefore, women's love has a time limit. After marriage, women think more about the daily necessities of life. It is naive to expect that their wives can still be as sweet as when they were in love. There is only one effect of a happy marriage, which is to catalyze love into family affection.

Men value novelty. After a relationship is over, the novelty is gone and he will no longer love you as much as he did when they were in love. Therefore, women should find ways to keep love fresh and make you always fresh in his eyes.

6. Don’t expect a man to let go of a woman who has changed her mind

Women know how to deal with unfaithful or cheating men, therefore, when men treat women with a tough attitude, they will usually fall into the women's revenge trap. Women with low IQs will make a big fuss, while women with higher IQs will separate but never divorce. Once the mistress has become a shrew, the man's interest will naturally disappear. Then, such a philandering man can only wait to be punished by the woman. Similarly, a man will not let go of a woman who has changed her mind.

7. Don’t expect men to define the future as what’s coming.

When female friends are in love, they like to ask men about their plans for the next few years. They hope to hear about their grand plans so that their future will be more secure and they will have more confidence. But remember, don't expect men to define the future as something that is about to happen.

Generally speaking, men define the future as no more than one year, and any future plans for relationships only refer to things that need to be done within the year. Women are different. The future they refer to can be 50 years or even a lifetime. When a man falls in love with a woman, he may only think of a brief intimacy, while a woman will fantasize about falling in love, getting married, having children, and then the two of them walking hand in hand until they are old.