Men and women will encounter these "embarrassing" things on their wedding night

As exciting as a volcanic eruption, as intoxicating as fine wine...the exaggerated rendering in literary and artistic works has led many young people to over-idealize newlywed sex. A survey recently published in Hong Kong shows that in the sexual life of newlyweds, trivial matters such as whether to turn on or off the lights, play music, take off socks or not, etc. can affect the harmony of the relationship between the sexes and even make your "wedding night" a failure.

Embarrassing: I can't get into bed because my hair is wet

Don't disbelieve it, your man may be so stubborn. Usually you see him radiant and radiant, and it is natural for a newlywed to take a bath and go to bed, but he is reluctant to go to bed.

He may not be obsessed with perfectionism, but it is just a life habit formed since childhood. The difference between a night of passion and an eternal engagement is that you can see the truest side of your partner's life.

He will definitely not touch the pillow with wet hair. If you know how to help him blow his hair at this time, instead of anxiously thinking about the next show and being depressed because the groom refuses to go to bed, then a beautiful show will be staged.

Awkward 2: He refused to take off his clothes under the lights

Shyness or habit? I advise you not to dig too deep into the reasons like your significant other. The point is, he or she is not used to taking off all clothes in front of you. If there are too many secrets on the wedding night, it seems that the bodies of men and women are not secrets at all and there are no taboos at all. But if you are asked to turn off the lights, it is easier to complete the romantic sex on your wedding night by cooperating with the other party.

It is a small habit that a person has developed for many years in life, but it becomes a little secret to be discovered by the other party because of marriage. I was worried before, what if the other party didn’t understand and I had to turn off the lights? I'm afraid that the embarrassment and shyness of that night will eventually turn into an unpleasant beginning of a misunderstanding between us. At this time, thick nerve endings are the "magic weapon" you need to have! In the future, when you face your body calmly, you will recall with fondness the little struggles you had in dealing with different habits.

Awkward 3: You never realized he liked erotic stories

He tells you a dirty joke or story that he really wants to tell you, and tells you that he has actually wanted to tell you for a while, but he is worried that before marriage, you will think that he has bad habits and be suspicious of him.

Some brides will be disappointed, feeling that their perfect wedding night is not so romantic and beautiful. Some newlyweds will discover common little habits from then on, and it turns out that they just let these habits hide their sexual desires in a conventional sex life.

Let’s consider it a good start to embark on a new journey starting from the wedding night.

Awkward 4: It turns out the other person doesn’t like romance

Both men and women have been intoxicated by the romantic mood and plot before their wedding. In addition to indulging themselves in the imagination, they have also been physically and mentally aroused in the implementation. Some romantic programs specially designed for the wedding night, whether made in China or abroad, will have alternative reactions when the program encounters a BUG.

Candlelight decorates the dreamy wedding room, and the next shot is the over-enthusiastic newlyweds trying to save the clothes thrown on the candles; mirrors are used to increase visual stimulation, and then one has to see the hands and feet kicking the mirror; after enjoying the romance, the bride says to the expectant groom, don't bother next time, it's tiring enough; the bride recites poems and metaphors beautifully, but the groom is worried that he will have to show off his knowledge in bed for the rest of his life. Only by distinguishing whether these romantic feelings are purely a whim or a personality trait, and by forbearing and cooperating with small habits, can we achieve the highest level of mutual support.

Embarrassing Five: The Incomparable Pain of the “First Time”

From a psychological perspective, pain is related to the newlyweds being overly nervous and anxious, or one of them having had bad experiences and therefore being afraid of sex, or one of them being overly conservative about sex and unable to relax. Physiologically, pain can be caused by lack of sexual knowledge or ignoring the importance of foreplay. The best way to solve this problem is to relax and proceed step by step.

Awkward 6: It's over before it even begins

For newlyweds, the man is often too excited and a little nervous during his first sexual intercourse, so premature ejaculation is quite common. Physiologically, it may be caused by diabetes, prostate or urinary tract infection.

The best way to solve this problem is to have sexual intercourse a second time that night after your physical strength has recovered. At this time, it will be easier to control the time.