7 situations that make men fantasize

1. His female boss praised him

Simply put, it was because his performance was outstanding that the high and mighty single and beautiful female boss gave him a thumbs up, a smile and encouragement.

Gray Area: He was wondering if she was interested in me?

You can think he is being sentimental, but men often think that this is what is called masculine courage. He is very confident in himself. He might fantasize about his female boss in bed late at night and think that she is lonely and needs his comfort.

Why is it that he is prone to sexual ambiguity with his single female boss? This has something to do with the "face-to-face" complex hidden deep in men's hearts, just like the complex of relying on rich men hidden deep in the hearts of many women. If wealth and status can be obtained without any effort, I believe that no man would be unwilling to try.

This is not only because of "face-shou", but also means: first, he is handsome and has sexual value; second, other men work hard all their lives, while he can get wealth through shortcuts - why not do such a good thing?

The Durex Global Sexual Survey Report points out that men have sexual fantasies about single female bosses, which is basically the primary sexual fantasy of men.

2. Daydreaming on the road

It was crowded, and she was standing right in front of him, with a faint scent of perfume, a white back, and cleavage faintly visible under her thin summer shirt.

Gray area: Did she mean it? But in his opinion, maybe she was getting close to him on purpose.

The Beijing subway is said to be a hotbed for sexual harassment, and most women have experienced being harassed on the subway. It is not known whether there are women harassing men on the subway, but it is true that close contact on the subway is a time that makes men distracted.

He knew that he couldn't act rashly, but the more he couldn't act rashly, the more he tended to make associations. Maybe it's a romantic encounter, maybe it's a love that comes suddenly.

When a woman is looking for romance all over the world, a man is also looking for the romance in his fantasy. Although the train has reached its destination, this does not affect his long and boring journey. He uses this ambiguous fantasy as his vitamin on the way to work.

3. Hanging out with your buddy’s girlfriend

As the saying goes, don't cheat on your friend's wife. But don’t forget another saying: other people’s wives are always the best.

Gray area: How can he find such a beautiful woman? If he can't get her, he can just fantasize about her, or just find a way to snatch her away.

She was his buddy's girlfriend, and one day when his buddy was away, he asked him to take care of her. Most of the accidents happen during this period of time. When the buddies come back, perhaps the landscape has changed. He may have been evasive at first, treating her only as a good friend, as he firmly believed that "a friend's wife should not be cheated on."

But the more he draws the line, the more his imagination runs wild. It may be that when the men were chatting together, her buddy had already jokingly told him the details of his sex life with her, which made him imagine more about the scenes of her and her buddy together. The more you associate, the more you want to replace.

When it comes to taboos, men are like rebellious children in adolescence, eager to offend and trample on them - because he feels a sense of pleasure in offending. Fantasy has something to do with my buddy’s girlfriend and also with the male’s sense of competition. Never believe that the friendship between brothers is unbreakable. There is no shortage of stories in history about iron-blooded allies turning against each other for the sake of beauties.

4. He and his confidante

On a rainy night, in a bar, we had a long and heartfelt talk. He was hurt, maybe emotionally, maybe at work. She was originally just his good friend, like a confidante, but after the conversation, she went home, his heart was not at peace.

Gray Area: She is so considerate and caring, and he is like a child who wants to claim her as his own.

How many deep friendships between men and women can be limited to emotion and in accordance with etiquette? If they can do so, then it must be the true realm. A friend of mine told me that one night, he had a heart-to-heart talk with his close female friend, and they talked until midnight, and then they went to bed. He left the door unlocked and spent a sleepless night, constantly imagining that his confidante might push the door open.

He wondered if she was just like him, with a restless mind. Such fantasies tortured him, and he stayed awake that night. The next day, his girlfriend, who was simple-minded, asked him what was wrong with his dark circles under his eyes. He could only answer with a wry smile. For a while, the media was hotly discussing the so-called "fourth kind of emotion", an ambiguous relationship between men and women, in which it was found that it was often the man who crossed the line in the end. When he shares his inner self with you, he must often want to share your physical feelings.

5. Girls wandering on the night streets

You are wandering alone on the street like a ghost, maybe you had a fight with your boyfriend, or maybe you are depressed at work and just want to get some fresh air.

Gray area: If there is a single girl who has no man around her, he certainly thinks he can chat her up or even kiss her.

To him, this seemed to provide an opportunity. Taking advantage of someone's misfortune is certainly not very upright, but the desire for a one-night stand based on a chance encounter is hidden deep in the hearts of many men. The reason why he is interested in you wandering on the street in the middle of the night is that you make him feel lonely and in need of comfort.

The man has a chivalrous spirit - it may be sexual desire, but he thinks he is doing good things. The second is the wandering girl he meets in the middle of the night. Even if it is just a one-night stand, he is irresponsible and has no worries - the fast-paced modern life has made him too tired and he doesn't want to have any emotional entanglements. Such a fleeting romance suits his psychology.

So, why is it that when a woman walks home alone in the middle of the night, bold men often whistle at her, and timid men can only make associations, because many men feel that this is a very ambiguous moment.

6. The boss's female secretary

The company's ANN replaced the highly popular Li Jian and became the assistant to the general manager. From the outside, this was a fairly normal personnel change, but rumors gradually spread in the office: ANN was promoted because of his relationship with the general manager.

Gray area: Since she can have an affair with other men, can she also have an affair with me?

It turned out that Li Jian had revealed the rumor to his colleagues intentionally or unintentionally while they were drinking coffee during their lunch break. Li Jian was originally interested in ANN, but ANN rejected him tactfully, which made him feel very hurt. In the eyes of some men, their inner chauvinism makes them always look down on talented women.

Especially when women become their superiors one day and order them around, their male self-esteem cannot bear it. So they take it for granted that if a woman is promoted, she must have some kind of ambiguous deal with her boss to achieve her goal.

This is somewhat filled with jealousy of sour grapes, and also with some sexual fantasies. In fact, all female secretaries have improper relationships with their bosses - this is a truth firmly believed by the man's world. Perhaps, such rumors cannot bring about an improvement in his environment at work, but he hopes to balance his injured male self-esteem in this way - the reason I didn't get promoted is not because I am incompetent, but because I didn't have the opportunity to have that kind of ambiguous deal with my boss.

7. Nurse in white uniform

He was sick, and the ambulance came roaring. A beautiful angel-like nurse descended from the sky with a medicine box. He enjoyed her warm care. She was concerned about his health and it seemed as if all the warmth in the world was concentrated in one person.

Gray Area: "Heidi's Sex Report - Men's Volume" mentions that for most men, hospital nurses are objects that easily make them feel ambiguous.

A famous writer's novel mentions a plot like this: There was a man who, because of an illness, enjoyed the careful care of a nurse. She was just a professional, but he had fantasies and always felt that the nurse was particularly interested in him. From then on, he hoped that he would get sick soon so that he would have the opportunity to get close to the beautiful nurse.

Why is he so easily flirting with the nurse? One reason is that the more vulnerable a man is, the more he needs sex and comfort. The second reason is that the nurse takes care of him, which is her job requirement, but he tends to be self-indulgent. Moreover, nurses are often gentle and considerate, and have the potential to be good wives and mothers.