9 ways to keep love fresh so that it never expires

How long is the shelf life of love? Many people feel that after getting married, their feelings become dull and the love gradually disappears. From love to marriage, everyone has more responsibilities and is busier for the family. In life, you may wish to try these nine love preservation techniques to make love never expire!

Exclusive “heart” time for the two of them.

Don't think of the exclusive time for two people as just private moments in bed, or watching TV at home together, or going out shopping together; it can be truly "exclusive for two people" only when you have spiritual communication! Set aside half an hour every week. Don't choose a movie theater or a noisy entertainment venue. Try to go for a walk with him in the evening, or just stay at home without turning on the TV or computer, sit on the carpet and drink a cup of hot tea and talk. During this half hour, put all your energy into the world of two people, listen to his mood, and talk about your own ideas. Once you develop this habit, the situation of "We are together every day, but I understand you less and less" will never happen between you.

Use the phrase "Are you tired?" to soothe his heart

A website once conducted a survey, and found that the common phrase husbands most want to hear from their wives is not "I love you" or "You don't have to worry about the housework", but "Are you tired?" or "Are you exhausted?" So even though you, as a virtuous woman, know in your heart that he is tired and have already prepared dinner and a hot bath for him, you must still ask this question, because rubbing his shoulders can soothe his tired body, but this sentence can soothe his heart. Especially after returning to your own home from your wife's home, when he hears these words, he will definitely feel that he has married the most caring wife in the world.

"Hands and feet" increase intimacy index

Although countless psychologists have suggested that we should often express our love to those around us, many young couples are still not used to saying "I love you" all the time. Since it's hard to express my love for you, then, just show it with practical actions! Between lovers, being affectionate is an effective way to increase the intimacy index between two people. Holding fingers while crossing the street while shopping, kissing on the cheek before going to bed and after getting up are all daily small actions to ensure that love does not fade.

Use small "sacrifices" as love regulators

Sounds simple? Hehe, for this matter, you have to choose the kind of "things he likes, but you are not very willing to do"! For example, let him sit in front of the computer and play games tonight, and resist the urge to nag; or accompany him to see the concept car show and listen to his excited "speech" for an entire afternoon; or go to that restaurant that he loves very much but you are not interested in for dinner. I believe he will keep it in mind, and this kind of "sacrifice" will be exchanged for his future humility and tolerance, because the most suitable soil for the growth of "love" is called understanding.

Want to keep your compliments valuable? Just once a month!

Sometimes men are actually like children, full of love and affection for those who often praise them. When he does something well, saying "great" is just a simple compliment to us, but he can feel happy in his heart for a long time. If you can praise him more in front of his friends and family, such as "If it weren't for my husband doing such and such at that time" or "You don't know what happened to my dear that day", he will be even happier in his heart. But you should be careful about the frequency of complimenting him. Once a month is enough, otherwise your compliments will lose value!

Set a monthly "cooking day", love is the best seasoning.

Due to changes in lifestyle and busy work, it is common for young couples today to eat out for three meals a day, but even so, can you try to cook at home once a month? Make a menu together, go shopping for ingredients together, and when we get home you help me choose the vegetables and I help you set the table. It doesn't matter how the dishes taste, because love is the seasoning. Only after being nourished by the ordinary life of the world can love withstand the storms of life.

With the sweet feelings you had when you wrote love letters in your school days, write a real letter to your boyfriend every year!

Handwritten love letter

In addition to text messages, phone calls, and emails, have you ever thought about writing a handwritten letter to him? With the sweet feeling of writing love letters in your school days, write a real letter to him every year! Whether it is his birthday, the anniversary of your love, or just an ordinary day when you miss him especially, it will become an excellent content for love. Not only will it make you who is writing the letter this year and him who is receiving it feel the beauty and happiness of being in love, but in the endless years to come, as long as you turn the pages of the letter with your fingertips, the love hidden in it will still emanate, lasting and fragrant.

Change the house to find love

Women want to change the look of their home at least once a year, so next time you want to make changes to your home, take him with you! What kind of furniture to change, what kind of color to go for, and what decorations to add to our bedroom? Watching the new home that carries our common hopes appear in front of us little by little, the dependence and love between each other will become stronger.

Take a "fill in the blank" tour!

It is actually not difficult to go traveling with him once a year. Traveling with your lover does not matter how long it takes or whether the destination is romantic. The key is whether it can add warmth to the love between you two. If all you have left in your memory after traveling are fatigue, complaints and a bunch of photos, you might as well stay at home! So why not try to choose a travel location like this, such as the small city where you spent your childhood, or the water town where you went to school before he knew you. Let him be your guide to fill in the blanks left by the other person in your life one by one. Is there any travel more suitable for warming up love than this?