Classification of "dangerous relationships" between men and women: Impulsive relationships are the most dangerous

Introduction: One of the characteristics of modern people: they desire secret intimate affairs like they are looking for wealth, and expect them to appear and stop at the right time. Perhaps it is because the love advocated in this era is too hasty. In short, our entire value judgment has been changed.

There are many kinds of danger. Some people say that walking at night when the moon is dark and windy has a creepy sense of danger, and that walking deep in the shade of trees has a chilling sense of danger... Feeling danger does not necessarily mean fear. Sometimes, even if you don't feel the danger, hurt, panic and tangled contradictions will emerge. Bring you a novel interpretation of the danger factor from level 3 to level 6!

1. The temptation of traveling alone

"I was panicked at one point because I had been living together for a long time, but it seemed a bit 'abrupt' to cross over to the stage of marriage, so I planned to take one last solo trip before marriage. My relationship with A began at that time, just like the plot of the movie "Vicky Christina Barcelona", every time I met A with a simple backpack, he was full of thoughts. He was wonderful, and he became my travel partner when I was alone admiring Gaudi's architecture, although we still went our separate ways in the end. We met in the same cafe many times. It turned out that Barcelona is really a magical place, which made me forget that I was already an engaged woman. I enjoyed his flirting in front of me, even when our eyes touched, it was enough to suffocate... My marriage, my love and my soul were challenged as never before."

Risk factor: three

No one knows what exactly happened between them. Maybe it was just the "last struggle" of a woman who was about to get married in her only days of being single. Then, unfortunately, at the end of her single years, she was tempted. Should he keep his promise to his marriage, or should he exile himself in the pursuit of emotions? Is this a redemption of true love, or a loss of the soul?

Analysis

If you are an emotional woman and lack the rationality to restrain yourself, you must be careful about the temptation of traveling alone. Of course, the premise is that you are still a charming woman.

If all these conditions are met, then traveling alone is bound to be full of dangers for you. Ask yourself, when a man with good conditions pursues you madly, where is your bottom line? If you have no bottom line, do you know that you are getting into an emotional entanglement? You should know that in addition to you and this sudden man, you already have a "him".

If this is a game, then the rules are obvious, and the game will only plunge you into the abyss of confusion. Because you are not sure who is true love, so let go of one hand and let the "right wedding" go on if it is right; let the "wrong encounter" go on to the end if it is worth it. In short, you have to decide!

2. The ambiguity of a close male friend

"On Valentine's Day, I was alone. He had to work overtime. He only had gifts delivered by express. He had no time to accompany me... What is certain is that he really loves me. He works so hard to make money just to give me a warm home as soon as possible. But I can't be relieved. We have been together since college, almost seven years, and we are a little tired. He, me, and C, the three of us were once best friends in school. Later, I chose to live with him, and C became our forever friend, but C cared about me as always, especially when he was not around. It was C who took me to Ocean Park again, and gave me a crystal bracelet as a gift. His thoughtfulness was very good, but there were no roses. When we were with C, we never crossed the line. What is certain is that C's girlfriends in the past seven years were all decorations, and no one really entered his heart. However, C knew all my secrets that even he didn't know. Is such a blue-faced confidant an eternal spare tire? Or is it a bomb that can explode at any time?

Danger factor: 5

Obviously, we are unable to withstand too much pampering and care. When a woman is happily enjoying a man, it is also an emotional drain. What's more, these are two men who both love you deeply. Do you believe that there is pure friendship between opposite sexes in this world? Are you really loyal to the friendship between you and the opposite sex? For this reason, the danger is not only in those unexpected emergencies, but also the jealousy of men. Which man can tolerate another man knowing your secrets, even your menstrual cycle?

Analysis

When did the "blue-eyed confidant" appear? Some people call this the third kind of emotion.

Women, if you feel comfortable with your "blue-eyed confidant", you can be as comfortable as you want, as long as you are comfortable. This includes that you can have some normal social activities, some common hobbies and ideals, but you need to be vigilant and careful about the unreasonable desires that may arise from this. The worst thing is that you become too addicted to the love of your "male confidant" and let him go to bed with you.

The best way to deal with this kind of relationship is that when you feel that this "blue confidant" is uncomfortable, or a little different from before, especially when the relationship between you and "blue" is a little awkward in front of your lover, maybe it's time for you to be careful.

3. Intoxication of a single thought

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Danger factor: 6

Perhaps marriage is a kind of bondage for her. However, even if she has made such a choice, her originally brilliant personality of "not willing to be ordinary", the colorful content that is worthy of others' envy, has become the source of "danger". Unlike many relationships that develop over time, this dangerous relationship is just a matter of thought. However, the key question is whether you continue to indulge in it or come to an abrupt end.

Analysis

There is no right or wrong in human nature, only relative harm and enjoyment.

Russell said: "Love can renew our entire life, just like a plant that has been drought for a long time and has encountered sweet dew. Sex without love has no such power at all. After a moment of joy, what is left is fatigue, disgust and a sense of emptiness in life."

Maybe you just hit the nail on the head. Cheating does not mean there is no love, or that you love the other person like the tide. In modern society, it may be an act of rebellion against morality and constraints. If you are just tired of having sex with this person, then what needs to be adjusted may be each other's sex skills; however, if you are suddenly tired of the dull but real life in front of you, then maybe you can think about whether you can find a place for you to escape, and it would be best to take your marriage with you, unless you have already decided not to give up.

Rule 1: Know the bottom line of your game

People who know how to play the "game" will at least not cause harm to each other, so when a heart-moving glance touches them, they will know when to stop. Don't wait until you reach your climax before you remember that the aromatherapy lamp in your home is still on. Don't put yourself in an embarrassing situation in the "game". A woman should know how to keep herself as elegant as possible at all times. Body posture. When "Dangerous Liaisons" is handled just right, it will make you more feminine, but if you overdo it, you will only be asking for trouble.

Article 2: Understand the "ambiguous" and "tempting" eyes

Often, the "ambiguity" between the sexes is a hormone that keeps the passion for life alive. You can enjoy being watched by other opposite sexes.

The glory of being a good person, but you must know how to analyze which kind of eyes are "tempting". If the former represents the vanity of attraction, then the latter becomes the pain of addiction. Once you become addicted, it means you will lose your mind and do other things, and your helplessness will make the "danger" even greater, so you need to control it well.

Article 3: Stay away from dangerous people

The best way to be safe is to stay away from "dangerous relationships", and the best way is to reject dangerous people. For this, maybe you need to endure loneliness, treat the gifts of the other side of life with tolerance, you need to tolerate that your lover is not perfect, understand that your partner ignores you in life, and communicate with him to enjoy the happy waves in ordinary days. If you don't think you are a character who can play games, then why not be a cheater, let others play other people's games, and you go your own way. Happiness only belongs to those who know how to cherish it.