Check out the top 10 ambiguous secrets between men and women

The relationship between people is very subtle. We always find that some men and women around us are in an ambiguous relationship of "more than friends but less than lovers". Let's take a look at 10 kinds of ambiguous secrets between urban men and women.

1. Men offer to help women in public

When a man offers help to a woman on his own initiative, it can be said that they are acquaintances or not, but men have a tendency to please.

2. Men often buy breakfast for women not to show their affection

If a man often buys breakfast for a woman, but the woman never buys breakfast for the man, then the relationship between the man and the woman is no longer just acquaintances. If the man is not the woman's junior or the like, then there must be another invisible thing balancing this behavior. For example, a man and a woman have an ambiguous relationship, and in this relationship, the man is the active one, while the woman is the psychologically dominant one.

3. Men and women often stay together, but their clothes are plain when they are acquaintances

This kind of situation definitely means that the man and woman are already lovers, and they are not normal lovers, but rather an extramarital affair. Because if you are friends, there is no need to avoid others, and if you are a normal couple, there is no need to pretend to be strangers. Only if they are extramarital lovers and cannot control themselves from meeting each other frequently, but when they meet other acquaintances, they have to find excuses, and when they meet outsiders, they have to pretend that their relationship is very ordinary. However, this is just like covering one's ears and stealing the bell. Some lovers will not shy away from expressing their feelings in certain situations, such as in front of a few close friends.

4. Men and women are not married, but they often quarrel with each other

Both the man and the woman were angry with each other and ignored each other. This not only shows that the relationship between men and women has become deeper, but also shows that there has been a long emotional relationship between men and women. At the beginning of a relationship, men and women generally don't get angry often. Both sides care about each other's feelings. But when the relationship has a certain depth, one party has given more to the other, and will also have more demands and requests, and will have more capital to get angry. When the relationship becomes "useless", it will be easier to get angry.

5. Women can casually lecture men in public

If a woman and a man are not husband and wife, nor are they any other relatives, the woman can casually speak to the man in a lecturing tone in public, and the man will show surprising magnanimity and at most say a few words of impatience. That must mean that the man and woman had already gone to bed for some purpose. And going to bed is purposeful. If the man is the woman's immediate superior, the woman can reprimand her superior in return. This must be because the man has messed up the relationship between superiors and subordinates in bed and made some promises that he should not have made.

6. Women say bad things about men behind their backs, and it’s about sex

Women talk bad about men behind their backs and talk about their sexual privacy. That means the man has a grudge against the woman, or the man did something to the woman. Or maybe there was an affair in the past, but now it has deteriorated.

7. Women and men walk together openly and act close to each other

If there is no blood relationship between a man and a woman, in this case, the relationship between the woman and the man is clear, and at most it is a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Especially when men and women appreciate each other and are compatible but have not really started their emotional journey, they seem to be very affectionate, but they will be very open with each other. Except for normal couples, men and women will show a tendency to get together before they fall in love. But when they are really sticking to each other, they will take the initiative to separate in public.

8. A woman invites a man to dinner

When a woman invites a man to dinner, it is either because she owes him something, because she admires him, or because she wants something from him. If all of the above reasons are true, then it is even more likely. If a woman invites a man to dinner but is very polite or always trying to please him, she must be asking something of him. When a man and a woman do not have a sexual relationship, the woman may invite the man to dinner for other reasons, but after the woman and the man have had sex and developed feelings for each other, the woman may cook for the man at home, and it is usually the man who invites the man out.

9. A woman and a man walk one in front of the other at a distance.

We thought that if this happened once or twice, perhaps people would stop associating these two people together. But this way of walking one in front and one behind has been repeated many times. This also explains why the relationship between men and women is special and why one needs to be wary of acquaintances.

10. A man gives a woman roses in front of everyone

Perhaps, some people would think that this must be done only between husband and wife. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. It is very likely that the man and woman are open lovers. It is rare for a couple to send flowers to each other, but it is very likely to happen when a man starts to pursue a woman. But after marriage, the chances are much lower. A man will only think of sending flowers if he feels he owes a woman too much. But for lovers, sending flowers is a form of flattery and it is cheap.