4 secrets of women that you should never tell men

There is no woman without secrets, and there is no secret that one does not like to provoke women. To a woman, secrets are like shadows that follow her everywhere and are entangled in her heart. They will accompany her throughout her life. Being a woman, there are four secrets that you will never get rid of in your life. You have to learn some tricks to deal with these things.

The degree of pursuit of privacy is different for everyone. Some people believe that lovers should be honest with each other and have no secrets. As a woman, the secrets deep in your heart can only be taken out and savored alone at certain times, and cannot be shared with your lover.

Women, for your own happiness, please remember that you need to keep four major privacy matters to yourself and make them secrets that cannot be told...

1. Love Secrets

A person cannot have only one emotional experience. A past relationship is like an irregular pain to a woman. When women hear words like "ex-boyfriend" and "ex-husband", they will awaken the feelings hidden in their hearts. These feelings make women entangled and tormented. The reason is mixed with a kind of worry about the past.

Women are afraid that their private affairs will be casually revealed by men, especially that their current lover will know about their past intimate relationship with their "ex". If you want to protect these, you must properly handle your relationship with your "ex".

The most taboo is "sharp tongue but soft heart". When a man and a woman break up, listing each other's sins is equivalent to making an enemy for themselves. Especially, don't talk about "money" and "sex". These two things are a man's self-esteem. A man won't care if you treat a woman who strips him of his self-esteem even a little bit worse when you break up with her!

2. Life Secrets

Most modern people believe in the principle of "I am the boss in my own territory" in love. But in real life, these two best friends often share their secrets, which eventually makes their love become powerless.

Although some private events in women’s lives may not be that harmful after being spread, they will still cause psychological torture to a certain extent.

To deal with this aspect, women should try to reduce the secrets they share with their besties, unless you are really sure that she is really your "bestie". Show off less among your female friends, and don’t always act like you have a strong sense of superiority. So as to avoid causing widespread jealousy among others, which would cause harm to you. Women's troubles are all caused by "comparison". If you want to live a stable life, you must be calm!

3. Workplace Secrets

If you think you can get closer to your boss by talking about private matters, you are wrong. Xiao Wu was rather naive when she first entered the workplace. One day, when she went to submit a report to her boss, she happened to run into her boss arguing with her husband on the phone at the office door. When she saw me, both of them were extremely embarrassed. I quickly backed out and closed the door for my boss. In fact, Xiao Wu had handled the situation very well up to this point. However, when he met his boss in the cafeteria the next day, Xiao Wu asked, "Are you okay?" and his boss's face changed immediately. Xiao Wu was puzzled and went back to talk about this with his colleague. His colleague said: The boss doesn't want his privacy to be known by his employees, and what you saw was not a good thing. Unexpectedly, the colleague is also the company's loud speaker and a gossiper at ordinary times. One day the whole company will know that the boss and her husband are having a conflict.

Secrets can be discussed, but the key is how to discuss them. Not all private topics are suitable for sharing with colleagues, and inappropriate topic selection may cause you some trouble. Maybe you will leave people with an impolite impression, making them think that you speak without restraint and act carelessly. If it is heard by a third party with ulterior motives, the consequences may be serious enough to affect your personal professional reputation.

Secrets in the workplace are related to the success or failure of a career, regardless of whether the privacy involved is company-related or company affairs. When women are in the workplace, they must know how to "control their mouths" and not let others think that they are gossipy. Although there are no secrets in the workplace, it is better to say less. Often the privacy information disseminated by companies is unclear, and it is hard to tell which is true and which is false. If you are unlucky someday, you will be the one to take the blame!

4. Secret of Thought

A woman's mystery can make a man fascinated and unable to stop. Where does a woman's mystery come from? A woman with a story deep in her heart is undoubtedly mysterious. Of course, the so-called women with stories are not those indecent things that were once "difficult to talk about or could not be talked about", but the thoughts that have accumulated in women's hearts over time. A woman's knowledge does not lie in how much she has, but in how she uses it. Let a man know that you are a smart person. Showing off a few tricks inadvertently will make a man look at you with admiration, but don't talk about these thoughts all the time.

If you show yourself as a thoughtful woman every day, men will only think you are a dull female pedant; only a woman who occasionally reveals a little bit of "profundity" will make men truly feel your mystery. When facing the man you love, you must learn to control your desire to talk and let the man treat you as a book that he can't quite understand but attracts him to explore in depth. For a woman, this will charm her for a lifetime.

In the era of privacy, women should have some "privacy awareness". You have to learn not to let men see through you at a glance. This is not a trick, but the secret to making your life happy!