How can pregnant mothers help their husbands get rid of the "abstinence period"

Many times, it is easy for husbands to neglect their wives’ sexual communication during pregnancy. Many women reflect that when they get married, their hearts are overwhelmed by the vision and joy of being a mother, their lives are pulled away by another force, and their husbands are no longer the focus of their lives as they did in the world of two people.

One day, you are pregnant and when you are happily preparing to become a mother, the doctor tells you that you cannot have sex with your husband for a period of time.

This is actually just a common-sense health protection measure, but around us, there are many stories of wives experiencing sexual infidelity from their husbands. The husbands' reasons are usually that they cheated only for sex and they still love their wives deeply. However, it is difficult for women to accept this. Why does he do this? Does he need a relationship with another woman to replace the "sexual vacuum" that occurs during your period, after only a few months? It’s because of children that the oxygen for cultivating sexual interest has been drained away!

In any case, many couples will realize that their relationship will hit a red light after their wife leaves. If you can get through this extraordinary period smoothly, your relationship will be more harmonious and beautiful; if you cannot get through it smoothly, your family will be hurt.

Many times, it is easy for husbands to neglect their wives’ sexual communication during pregnancy. Many women reflect that when they get married, their hearts are overwhelmed by the vision and joy of being a mother, their lives are pulled away by another force, and their husbands are no longer the focus of their lives as they did in the world of two people.

Most of these happen shortly after a marriage, when the couple’s sexual life is going well and suddenly there is a sudden brake, and the man and woman naturally face a test. Some men report feeling lost. The reason for loss is that the wife has children to worry about, and the man feels that he is no longer her only one; the second reason is the lack of a normal sex life, and the man will obviously feel uneasy. In fact, after the wife has an accident, both men and women need to carry out sexual psychological health care in time, because no matter it is unexpected or expected, the normal sexual life of the couple will be affected.

Many men believe that at this time they still desire more emotional exchanges with their wives. Some people believe that "a long separation is better than a new marriage" between husband and wife, but the premise of "a long separation is better than a new marriage" is the deep love between husband and wife, and the inner longing and desire for each other. Otherwise, "long separation" can only deepen the sense of distance. There are also many men complaining that after their wives are married, some wives will even rudely reject their husbands, which makes their husbands feel very hurt in their self-esteem.

Experts advise wives to first strengthen emotional communication. Men are sometimes like a child who never grows up. At first, he is his wife's sweetheart and his wife revolves around him every day. Later, his wife focuses on the children and no longer revolves around him. After the man loses his central position, he may feel a sense of loss.

Timely emotional communication between husband and wife can not only keep the relationship between husband and wife as it was at the beginning and not be affected, but also train men's sense of responsibility, enable men to shoulder the burden of future fathers and escort the birth of new life.

Secondly, during the wife’s period, some sexual methods may not be used anymore, but during this period, it is also an opportunity for couples to try more sexual methods. As long as men and women can calmly discuss sexual issues during their period, under the guidance of a doctor, they can continue to have sex as long as it does not harm the body. The psychological basis of this is the idea that after the husband gets rid of his wife, no sexual activity can take place between the couple.