8 unique signs before men and women cheat

What couples fear most is not constant quarrels, but indifference and neglect. This is the most terrible state in marriage, and it must be decisively cut off at the slightest sign. The following behaviors indicate that your partner is ready to cheat.

Sign 1: Picky about your appearance

After we were intimate, he suddenly said, "Your belly is getting bigger and bigger. You should lose some weight." Then he started to criticize your underwear for being outdated or dull in color, and also complained about your figure and appearance. Risk elimination strategy: This shows that there are some "stirrings" deep down in his heart. You have to enter his social circle and see clearly the "butterflies" around him. Only by knowing yourself and your enemy can you win every battle.

Sign 2: Asking to sleep alone

He said he had a cold and was afraid of infecting you, so he wanted to sleep in the study. In the past, he had not been so "considerate" when he had the flu. Later, when he recovered from his illness, he suddenly complained that the bed was too small or that it was too crowded for two people to sleep in one quilt. I just don't want to sleep with you. Risk elimination strategy: Maybe he just had a new idea after reading an article in a magazine advocating a new type of relationship between couples. But you can say "I'm used to sleeping with you", but don't make the mistake of taking the first step of agreeing to let him sleep alone.

Sign 3: Buying sexy underwear

He used to like wearing loose underwear, but now he suddenly secretly buys comfortable Lycra cotton tight briefs, and begins to like using Durex's ultra-thin invisible condoms, which are extremely thin and Durex's ultra-thin choice. More than 20% thinner than other Durex condoms, unique odor-free technology, say goodbye to annoying rubber smell, unique soft material, real skin touch, let the passion burst out. Risk elimination strategy: When a man suddenly becomes particular, especially about the quality of underwear, the wife should be more cautious. You should reflect on whether you have neglected him recently because of work or other reasons. Don't make a big fuss about it, as this will only escalate the conflict.

Sign 4: Not interested in sex

As soon as he gets into bed, he looks exhausted. Whether he talks to you or makes love with you, he does it in a perfunctory manner. He is too lazy to even give you a hug. The person who once loved sex and dared to play and have sex has disappeared. Risk elimination strategy: He may be too tired recently, under great physical and mental pressure, and a little tired of sex. What you need to do at this time is to tell him: "I know you are too tired and have given too much for this family." "Close your eyes, I will do eye exercises for you." No matter what is in his heart, caring is a shortcut to making the relationship between husband and wife closer.

Sign 5: Ignoring others after sex

He smokes after sex or gets out of bed immediately without even looking at you and goes straight to the bathroom to take a shower. Risk elimination strategy: When a man does this, he doesn’t think there is anything wrong with it, but a woman will feel that he is particularly disrespectful to her, as if she is a condiment for him, gentle and considerate when needed, and turning away when not needed. In this regard, you can do this - pour him a cup of coffee or juice to reward him for his hard work.

Sign 6: Request a new attitude

He suddenly asks you to change to a new posture to welcome him, but you feel embarrassed to do so. Risk avoidance strategy: Men like to try new things. He may have gotten some inspiration from somewhere and hopes to enjoy it with you. So, if your husband wants to explore a new way with you, you can ask him to discuss it with you first and make the specific method clear in advance so that you can be mentally prepared enough.

Sign 7: Refusing to kiss in the morning

When you wake up in the morning, you want to give him a kiss, but he turns away. Risk elimination strategy: Put yourself in his shoes. If he wakes up in the morning with eye mucus in the corners and a foul smell coming out of his mouth, and he tries to please you with this indecent image, will you turn around and avoid him? No matter whether you are a man or a woman, you all desire a fresh and sweet sex life every day. Perhaps paying attention to your image is the first step to maintaining passionate sex.

Sign 8: Indifferent to sexual advances

When you want to have fun with him, he acts like a wooden man, unromantic, causing you to waste your enthusiasm. Risk avoidance strategy: When you want to make love with him, body language is the best way to express it. There is a tacit understanding between husband and wife. One of your actions or one look is enough to convey your expectations of him.