When is the right time to have sex?

When facing a new relationship, women are often confused about whether they should accept his "sexual invitation", when they can start having sex with him, whether they need to show off their sexual skills during "making love" or should they be reserved?

Be friends or have sex

Don't fool yourself. When you think about the question of "sex or friends", you have already lost the qualifications to be friends in the narrow sense that you define. Misunderstandings about sex, not sex itself, are the obstacles to being friends. Sex is an expression of intimacy and a natural desire between mature people of the opposite sex who appreciate each other. If I have a friend of the opposite sex who I can talk to very well, and he has that kind of sexual attraction to me, I will certainly naturally want his hug and kiss, and it would be best if I could be in perfect harmony with him, instead of pretending to be reserved for the sake of being so-called "long-term friends".

When do you make love with him?

Some girls are always worried and anxious, always worrying that maybe he won’t like me anymore once they go to bed. In fact, people attach too much importance to sex and think that sexual giving is the bottom line, the giving of one's whole body and mind. Therefore, after giving, one's psychological advantage is broken, and one forms the idea that the man should be responsible for himself, which causes the man to panic. The mature approach is: 1. Don’t expect yourself to be a princess that everyone loves, allow the other person to get tired of you, and give the other person some free space, so that your own soul can also be set free. 2. When you want him the most, have sex with him to maximize your sexual satisfaction. Otherwise, it would be a waste to miss the passion when you want it the most. 3. If you feel good, tell him about it. Maybe he has the same concerns as you.

Sexual skills and passion

From passive reception to active control, the exploration of sexual techniques and the improvement of sexual ability seem to have become an important training for women who want to please men. No matter whether the other party likes you or not, or whether you like the other party or not, pull them to bed and show your sexual ability to get affirmation first. I am not afraid that you will not accept it, but I am afraid that you will not do it! After all kinds of oral sex training and vaginal feeling training are in place, some women with higher understanding have begun to have new pursuits, that is, to cultivate sexual passion that can be summoned and waved away, and to guess and grasp various clinical manifestations. Haha, let those women who are still indulging in the exploration of how to make men's sticks feel the maximum limit of happiness continue to study various angles and strengths. They have entered a new stage, making every man who makes love with her feel that she loves him the most!

About rejection

Some girls are not good at saying no, and sometimes they are not sure whether they like the other person or not. When they ask themselves, the answer is: I don’t dislike him/her. In this case, it is better to refuse politely, frankly and clearly. Don't worry about the other person's ability to bear it. Doing so will always cause much less harm to the other person than going to bed because you are moved by the other person's relentless pursuit of you, and then regretting and abandoning him/her. Even if you have a little bit of affection for him, you should still express your thoughts clearly and tell him: I have a certain affection for you now, but this affection is not in that sense at all. Don't drag things out and keep the other party guessing. Doing this is a respect for the other person and even more so for yourself. If the other person is mature, he will be grateful to you.