A comprehensive analysis of the mentality of men who visit prostitutes

Once at a dinner party, someone asked me, if one day you want to say goodbye to being single and become a married woman, and one day your lover comes back from visiting a prostitute, and you don’t know at first, but later you find out, will you beat him so that he can’t take care of himself, or will you divorce him? There was silence at the table, and I knew that some gay men especially wanted to hear it. I thought for a moment, then chuckled and said, "I would boil a pot of oil and pour it into his lower body..." There was a burst of exclamations.

I hate men who visit prostitutes.

Yes, I hate men who visit prostitutes. If a man has a lover outside who he can get for free, and she is better looking than me, I will feel sad and feel that I am getting old. I feel like an old rag that has been used for many years, or an old piece of clothing that has been out of season. "Blocked ads" are going to be dealt with. I will hide in a corner, remain silent, reflect, and even shed tears. But at least there won't be too much anger, just sadness, the fragility of love. But soliciting prostitution is truly unacceptable. Even if the former's heart and body are no longer with me, and the latter's lower body is in the "Eight Great Hutongs", his heart is still at home?

A middle-aged gay man once spewed a lot of trash at a dinner party, "Wives are annoying, lovers are too troublesome, prostitutes are the best, have fun with them, and spend three hundred dollars. Once I leave, there's no trace." Sure enough, sitting next to him was a charming woman with a bloody mouth and a well-dressed appearance. The two of them were flirting with each other, totally disregarding the feelings of the people around them, but his wife came by and the two women got into a fight. No one tried to persuade him, and everyone just watched. All I heard was the girl cursing, "You old woman, you're worse than a chicken. You've been treated like a slave, but what have you gotten? I, Hao Xi, have also been paid." It was so harsh. Originally, the original wife came to question the visitor, but ended up being humiliated by a prostitute. The reason why the woman was so arrogant was because the middle-aged comrade doted on her. A colleague next to me whispered in my ear, "Why not let his wife become a prostitute too." I shook my head and the meal became tasteless.

All the way there I was thinking about the woman whose face was scratched by a prostitute. It's a tragedy for a woman to do this. Some girls are smart and they chase after money at a young age. They don't care about love, everlasting love, or growing old together. But when they reach middle age, their lustful nature is exposed, whether they are capable or not. Because there are too many men who want to visit prostitutes and the market potential is too big, pimps can be seen everywhere. They have some young or broken girls and women under their command, and they sell their lower bodies to make money. To support themselves, there are also the men behind them. A female writer said, "There is no essential difference between a woman in marriage and a prostitute." This is terrifying, but it is pitiful. Most Chinese women do not gamble with marriage in exchange for wealth and happiness in the second half of their lives. They work hard all their lives and bear the expenses of the family like men. In the end, when they are old, they are not as good as a hawking chicken...

Women's attitude towards men whoring prostitutes

In foreign countries, prostitution is considered a legal service industry. In old China, there were also many pretentious literati who liked to look for soulmates and beauties in places like Chunxiangyuan and Zuihonglou. Of course, the prostitutes in the past used their "skills", but today it's all about the bed. The sexual service of a prostitute is professional, which can make a man feel comfortable to the core, and he can behave roughly. He feels like a real man in front of a prostitute. Although prostitutes may occasionally encounter tight situations, some women do earn more, and unlike us professional women, they do not have to pay taxes. So more and more women are willing to exchange sex for money. I don’t know whether it is easy or not, but at least it is true that the money can be earned quickly.

But from another perspective, girls should still look for husbands who are older. Because women age more easily, physiologically. It is true that women’s sex life is not as good after 40 as it was before 40, and a few years before that is even worse. People have been calling for gender equality, but the tragedy of women is that they can never achieve physical equality with men.

Men are always more tolerant of other men visiting prostitutes. Visiting prostitutes is nothing more than a form of sexual satisfaction and excitement. Think about it, even a big shot like Chirac loves to visit prostitutes, let alone ordinary people. It's a little dirty, but not many people are infected with AIDS or sexually transmitted diseases. Who is unhappy? I am happy! Some people pay attention to hygiene, some people don't. It's like knowing that a public toilet is not clean, but you have to go there when you are in a hurry. Aren't there star-rated public toilets now? Nowadays, the price of prostitution ranges from a dozen yuan to several thousand yuan. The level is different, so the money paid is naturally different. Prostitution is nothing more than the things between animals. Sex is emptiness? However, most prostitutes are middle-aged men. Think about a handsome man in his twenties who is visiting a prostitute. Are you playing with the prostitute? Or is the prostitute playing with you?

Women have different attitudes towards men visiting prostitutes. If the woman is old and ugly and has no financial ability to rely on the man, then women will turn a blind eye to it. If one has an independent and strong personality, then it will definitely be earth-shaking. There is nothing else to say...

"In your eyes, your husband has always behaved well. He is a good father and lover at home, and a good leader and subordinate at work. Suddenly one day, you saw him squatting on the ground with his head in his arms, and there was a woman with almost nothing on next to him. Would you cry and scold him for being a beast in human form, or throw the TV and him out of the window, or forgive him and pretend nothing happened..." Different women have different answers, but they are essentially the same...

It is said that a certain leader likes to collect prostitutes' underwear and sanitary napkins. I was horrified when I heard that...

Psychological characteristics of prostitutes

What reasons might motivate a person to visit a prostitute? In terms of environmental factors, some literature points out that countries or regions with a strong immigration culture, or due to other reasons. Family members have to live separately. If they cannot see each other for a long time, their basic sexual needs cannot be met, so they may resort to buying prostitutes to satisfy them. Therefore, those who have so-called "inner beauty" should carefully consider their needs in this regard!

In terms of social and cultural factors, some ethnic groups have a more open attitude towards sex. For example, in the Brazilian Carnival, sex is also a way of revelry and fun. For the Yamato people, prostitution trips seem to be a common way of life or a subcultural phenomenon. However, sexually transmitted diseases are one of the inevitable costs. Men who want to organize a so-called "artillery regiment" should be careful, because in the work of preventing and treating sexually transmitted diseases, there are many sad examples of people who have been well-behaved all their lives, but somehow, they followed others to have fun and "entered the world of flowers" in their old age, and unexpectedly "won the jackpot" in one fell swoop.

In terms of personal factors, there are probably the following reasons:

1. Business needs;

2. Curiosity;

3. For entertainment;

4. Seek excitement;

5. Satisfy sexual needs;

6. Compensate for unsatisfactory marital sex life.

In addition, some recent psychiatric research shows that although prostitution cannot be called a mental illness, it is indeed a personal behavioral problem, and some personal character traits have long been noticed by scholars to affect the occurrence of this behavior. Some studies on patients with STDs show that these patients often have psychological characteristics that are both neurotic and extroverted. The reasons may be that neurotic people have a more negative attitude towards sex, for example, they have more hostility, guilt, and sexual repression, so it is not easy to have a satisfying sex life; on the other hand, people with high extroversion tend to be promiscuous. Therefore, under the interaction of these two personality traits, people with these psychological characteristics will tend to engage in prostitution, and of course they may also contract various sexually transmitted diseases. Recently, some people who care about women's rights have called for Taiwan not to become the "Asia-Pacific sex trafficking center", mainly criticizing Taiwan's pornography industry for being too rampant. One of the main points of these people's accusations is that there is too high a demand for underage workers in Taiwan's pornography industry. Even if this is true, people who visit prostitutes do not necessarily like to visit underage prostitutes. At least on the surface, most of these men cannot accept (64.8%) or do not like (71.7%) the idea of ​​underage girls accompanying customers to drink, chat, play, sit at the table, or even appear as "pink sexual companions." On the other hand, some people prefer child prostitutes.

According to surveys conducted in Taiwan and Hong Kong, the reasons for preferring child prostitutes include:

1. The old virgin complex;

2. Some myths about maintaining health, such as "young teeth take care of bones and muscles" and "young teeth take care of eyes";

3. Fear of contracting disease;

4. Be curious about new things;

5. You want a partner who is easier to manipulate than you;

6. Pressure from business partners or friends;

7. A small number of them are more likely to be pedophiles.

Judging from these reasons, basically speaking, people who like to visit child prostitutes are not mentally healthy. As mentioned earlier, a small number of those who prefer to patronize underage prostitutes are pedophiles. So what are the characteristics of pedophiles? According to estimates by foreign scholars in 1992, there are at least 500,000 pedophiles in the world. People with this fetish have even formed international organizations to satisfy their desires through various means. More importantly, pedophiles are actually found in all walks of life. At least, those who know how to form pedophile organizations are not ordinary people.

If a man has a virgin complex, he should be guided and criticized. If a man has a prostitute complex, he should be criticized and condemned even more. In addition, we should also be vigilant and criticize other bad complexes of men. Because men's bad complexes are actually bad infringements on women. Only when we reveal and criticize them can we defend the rights and happiness of women!