Why do men like to have affairs and mistresses?

1. Extramarital women are more considerate than wives

Men need to vent their bad emotions, and they need a patient listener to them. When men look for extramarital women, it is largely because they want to find in them the understanding that has long disappeared from their wives. It seems that only extramarital women can have more patience and more understanding to be considerate to men than their wives.

2. Extramarital women bring more sexual stimulation to men

Extramarital women are not averse to playing new and exciting sex games with men, and will also watch small videos for adults with their lovers. However, such things are unthinkable in front of their wives. Not to mention that their wives will not watch such videos with them, even if their wives find out that they are watching such videos, it will be a heinous crime. Therefore, the best object for seeking sexual stimulation will only be the woman outside of marriage.

3. Extramarital women can make men feel more fulfilled

From ancient times to the present, most successful men in their careers have had extramarital women. Clinton had it, Tang Bohu had it, and most leaders in the Chinese officialdom have had it. Successful men need women to admire them and to worship them, but their wives are mostly not good at playing idiots, so only extramarital women are willing to take on this role.

4. Extramarital women will not bother you like your wife does

After returning home from a busy day at work, most people like to relax. Wives often don't notice their husbands' emotions and always ask questions about all sorts of things. Unlike extramarital women who will read the man's face, if the man doesn't want to talk, they will retreat to the kitchen so that the man can see the rich delicacies and food after resting.

Wives who read this article should not lose their temper or criticize the author's intentions. Always think positively. A woman's successful development from a lover to a wife does not mean that the revolution has succeeded. The fact that many men have extramarital women outside shows that there are still problems in their marriages. Therefore, if you can learn some tips from extramarital women on how to treat men, perhaps it will not be in vain for my original intention of writing this article.

5. Extramarital women will do everything they can to please successful men

The wife knows her position in the husband's mind. Therefore, there is no need for her to put on airs in front of her husband, nor is there any need to be servile to serve her husband, thus developing the husband's bad habit of not liking to work. But it is different for women outside of marriage. They have an innate sense of crisis. They know that if you make a man unhappy today, you may never see him again tomorrow.

6. Extramarital women usually observe men's colors and looks

Extramarital women usually know their own limitations. If they have no ambition to become the queen, they will usually hide behind the man. Their behavior will mostly revolve around the ups and downs of the man's expression. They will stop immediately if the man feels the slightest bit unhappy. Unlike the wife who follows her own temper, she will not give in even if her husband loses his temper.

7. Extramarital women make men feel like they are in love again

An extramarital woman always shows her glamorous side to a man, unlike his wife who walks around the house wearing a beauty mask and loose pajamas, or sits there watching boring soap operas. Extramarital women usually let men see their sexiest and most beautiful image, or sit next to men like a little bird and watch Ai Iijima with them. The world of two people is warm and romantic, which can make men regain the feeling of love.

8. Extramarital women can make men feel valued

A wife's attitude towards her husband will become more and more casual as time goes by and the number of family members increases. The emotional focus will gradually shift from the husband to the children. As a result, the man will feel lost and always feel that he is the ignored decimal point at home. But it is different for an extramarital woman. She will regard the man as her everything because there are no children to distract her love.

9. Extramarital women are obedient to men’s sexual demands

Extramarital women will not be as self-righteous as wives, nor will they be annoyed by their husbands' physical needs like wives. The vast majority of extramarital women will take men's opinions as their own, and will actively cooperate as long as their lovers like it even during their menstrual period. Therefore, extramarital women will always leave men with the impression of traditional women who are gentle and humble, and always make men feel great.

10. Most extramarital women will show a grateful attitude

The wife always complains that her husband earns too little money and that their house is too small. But an extramarital woman is not like this. No matter how much material things a man gives her, she will be very grateful. Moreover, she will show a grateful attitude at all times and in all places. Not only will she not let the man work like a slave for her, but she will be very considerate of the man's hard work and always be grateful that the man treats her so well.