The perfect transformation of a man from three minutes to thirty minutes

A beautiful girl: Susan, with fashionable clothes, smooth long hair, and a full and elastic figure, looked melancholy and distressed when she first came to see the doctor.

Susan said that although her work was going well and her career was developing, she was often in a low mood and was unwilling to attend friends' parties.

In her life, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for many years. He is handsome and elegant, and has the demeanor of a Jiangnan talent. Whenever they go out together, this fashionable couple often arouses the envy of passers-by. According to Susan's recollection, her boyfriend acted as her protector from the moment they met. Susan's family was not happy during her childhood. She often confided her troubles to her boyfriend, who always listened patiently. Born in an educated family, her boyfriend had strong language expression skills and would often quote various knowledge he had seen to persuade Susan who was troubled. When her boyfriend is away on business, they can talk on the phone for two or three hours. But despite all the persuasion, Susan's troubles improved at the time, but they did not ease at all afterwards. However, her boyfriend was still as patient as ever. In Susan's mind, her boyfriend, who is a modest and gentlemanly man, is irreplaceable; and in her boyfriend's mind, he also thinks that Susan is his ideal girlfriend. However, the two of them still often have misunderstandings, conflicts and conflicts, and they don't know why.

Diagnosis of male sexual health: The truth is that the sexual life is not harmonious. By bypassing many superficial narratives and asking direct questions about their emotional communication and sex life, we discovered the truth. There are problems with their communication and interaction, which is directly reflected in their sex life.

Susan's boyfriend always has a very short sex time - the sex time refers to the time from the male erection to ejaculation - usually about two or three minutes, and no longer than five minutes each time.

The first time for both of them happened in a hurry. We were still in college at that time. There was no quiet environment and we were in a hurry. That’s how our first sex happened. Susan felt very panicked at the time, and her boyfriend also felt very panicked. After work, they started living together, but due to their busy work schedules, the time for their sex life was not fixed. What bothered Susan was that after each sexual intercourse, she felt very irritable and a hot urge spread throughout her body; however, her boyfriend did not think there was anything wrong with such sexual intercourse.

After in-depth consultation, it was found that the cause of Susan's distress was that the woman's sexual life was not satisfied, and the man's sexual ability was not fully expressed. The repeated release of physiological impulses caused her emotional irritability. Of course, there are also problems in emotional communication between the two sides.

Analyze a man's potential psychological needs from his behavior

Susan's boyfriend has a female friend who is older than him. This female friend has a lot of boyish personality, and he prefers this masculine temperament. He feels more refreshed with her, without any constraints or repression. Moreover, the man in this case spent less time with his father in his childhood, so he subconsciously had a desire to increase contact with men. The strong temperament of the female friend just made up for this psychological deficiency formed in his childhood. He spent more time with his mother, which made him have some feminine qualities.

Male sexual health: On men's potential inferiority complex

Susan's boyfriend strictly controls Susan's behavior because he is jealous of her attractiveness. Susan is good at singing and dancing and likes socializing, so he is always worried and wants to control Susan's behavior, hoping that Susan will pay more attention to him. This is actually caused by his subconscious inferiority complex - he feels inferior when facing Susan.

Since the man cannot fully release all of his sexual energy during sexual intercourse, he transforms it into jealousy and worry, which in turn leads to tension and anxiety during sexual intercourse. The consequence is that the duration of sexual intercourse cannot be effectively extended.

Cooperative treatment

Increase effective love communication between both parties

The communication of emotions and love is an art that requires careful experience and learning. In this specific case, we have just mentioned that both parties reduced the expression of their troubles and relieved the other party's pressure. In this case, the man and woman no longer confide their troubles, but instead plan a better future together. Of course, there is more art of love and communication that needs to be treated individually.

Treatment results:

30 Minutes of Victory

After a period of psychological counseling, Susan came to me with a smile and told me that their first sexual intercourse lasted for thirty minutes and Susan also reached orgasm.