Women will never tell you their true thoughts during sex

Many women are afraid that their partners will do something to hurt them during sex. Many women are embarrassed to talk about private matters such as sex. As their partners, men have the obligation to understand their true thoughts that they don't easily express.

What women never say during sex

1. We can tell at a glance that you stole this trick

Of course, we know that men understand this, but they still go on doing what they want and refuse to admit that these moves are just fancy tricks that are only for show. So we would rather remain silent when men use tricks that look great but are actually boring and useless. We don't want to have a discussion with men about whether these moves work. But when you use the lovemaking techniques you've learned that are not suitable for real life, we'll notice it right away, and we hope from the bottom of our hearts that you can separate the true from the false and discard these useless ones, so that we can then do some truly enjoyable lovemaking.

2. “One day at a time” is not that comfortable

The joke about "ejaculating in a man with just two moves" is not groundless. Women love sex, and most sisters have experienced at least once or twice the kind of behavior that we women hate - that is, the man rolls to the other side of the bed and falls asleep after orgasm, leaving us beside him sighing with resentment. However, just because women like intercourse lasting longer than 1 minute does not mean that the longer it lasts, the better. Maybe you are as strong as a striker of the Chinese national football team and can hold back for an hour without ejaculating, and you feel extremely proud of it. But in fact, maybe your female companion had enough 40 minutes ago, and the reason she didn't tell you is that she was worried about destroying your pride. The vagina's ability to maintain continuous lubrication is limited, which makes marathon sex more like a chore than a "hobby" for us.

3. We actually know how to orgasm

As a man, have you ever tried to do this and that during sex, only to find out in the end that we women just don't buy it? In fact, it is very likely that your partner knows how to reach orgasm because she has satisfied herself before, but she dare not tell you, perhaps because she wants to conceal the fact that other men have satisfied her in the past, or maybe she is just afraid of hurting your self-esteem. She may also think that using a vibrator in bed would make you feel embarrassed or that having you give her a blowjob all the time would bore you. So she won't tell you these things on her own initiative. If you have some inkling that she's hiding this, ask her. But don't ask during sex, because girls are very reluctant to think or judge things at that time (doing so may ruin your sex). If you want to ask, find a good time, such as when you are lying on the sofa watching the talent show.

4. Orgasm is not the only thing in sex, so don’t force it

At first I thought only a few women thought this way, but when I asked my sisters on Weibo about their sexual taboos, this was the story they shared the most. For women who have difficulty reaching orgasm, simply having sex can bring them joy, but they worry about disappointing their partners by not reaching orgasm. Women sometimes reject sex because they don't want to be forced to have orgasms that never come, which makes them prefer to do it themselves, even though they often can't reach orgasm. But orgasm is really not the only thing about sex. Therefore, if you want your partner to tell you what she really needs, please be mentally prepared first. If she tells you that not every sex must have an orgasm to be perfect, you must not be prejudiced against her or even scratch your head against the wall.

Most women are too lazy to fake an orgasm. However, there are still many sisters who will intentionally increase the decibel level when they climax because they know that you men like to hear it. This is not cheating, but a kind of feedback to you in the joy of love. If men can respond to this kind of praise, the world will be even more peaceful. Sex is not the time to show your machismo. If the man also makes some satisfied moans at this time, and whispers a few sweet words to express his satisfaction and appreciation for this sexual intercourse, then it will really be "good for her and for you".