What's wrong with not having pleasure in sex? These methods make you hotter

Many people report that their sex life no longer has the pleasure it once had, and that they feel less and less, especially couples who have been married for a long time. This is often because they are not well prepared for sex and lack the mood. If you want to have a more satisfying sex life, you can put more effort into it.

1. Arrange the environment

Before you start having sex, place everything you need around the bed, like condoms, lubricant, towels, and a large bottle of thirst-quenching lemon honey water. That way, there's nothing to worry about except enjoying sex, and there's no need to find trivial things to pause when you're having sex.

2. Resonate with his love

Men always seem impatient when making love. At this time, you might as well let him cool down from his blind passion temporarily. Experts advise you: Tell him your rhythm, he will be able to cooperate with you well, and you will have more harmonious sex.

3. Face to face

"The face is the most sensual part of the whole body," said a sex expert. "Don't be stingy with the caressing of his face. Use your fingers to slide on his nose, cheeks and lips, so that he can feel your deep love." Maybe you like to do some new things, but those places where you can't see each other's face are actually not pleasing.

4. Look into the other person’s eyes

Of course you can close your eyes and enjoy sex while making love. But if you open your eyes at the same time and gaze into each other's eyes, you will find that it is a shared experience.

5. Attention to details

When making love, let him hold your hands tightly together, or play with his eyes, in short, caress the parts of his body that are usually neglected. As sexologists say: "Intimacy does not mean just touching his genitals. You can create many unique ways of intimacy. For example, some couples will rub each other's cheeks with their eyelashes, which is playful and sweet."

6. Take an adventure together

Exploring some new ways of having sex that neither of you has tried can help you build a closer relationship. In this exploration, your trust in each other grows, and you can grow together in your lovemaking skills.

7. Swap roles

Is he the one who always takes the initiative on weekdays? It's time to switch roles! Tonight, you should take the initiative, so make him listen to you. You have to know that letting him entrust himself to you is a process of building great trust.

8. Eliminate fear

Forget about those excessive worries that linger in your mind! For example, my breasts are too small! You don’t have a good figure like his past girlfriend! These worries will only greatly reduce your sexual desire, so shout stop to the unnecessary thoughts. Sexologists even joked: "When you are the only naked woman in the bedroom, you are the sexiest in his eyes."

9. Show affection outside of the bed

When you are doing housework, shopping in the supermarket, or taking a walk together, you can express your love to him unexpectedly: for example, massaging his cheeks, gently pinching his thighs, pinching his earlobes... It is an endless love game.