Dating secrets from a love expert

The American media touted the book as the male version of "Sex and the City". "Marie Claire" was the first to reveal the exciting content and exclusively interviewed Ron Geraci. 10 dating tips for women:

1. Don’t be disgusted by a man’s black leather couch. It has been with men longer than you have known each other.

2. Don't tell men about your colleagues' conspiracies and crimes. He didn't know these people and had no interest in these things unless it had something to do with guns or sex.

3. When you pay the bill after a meal, when you take out your wallet, don't pretend to say, "Um! Wait a minute... are you sure you want to pay the bill?" If you are going out with a man, be more decisive when paying, or help pay for the drinks.

4. If you are really a little fat, don't deliberately find excuses to explain to men, such as: "I injured my foot last winter and couldn't walk, so I gained weight." A woman with a charming personality who doesn't make a fuss about her body shape will make men irresistible.

5. Don’t play the “I’m so mad at you, but I won’t tell you why” trick. If a man irritates you, just dump him or just say what you want to say directly, don't let him guess why you are angry. This is the behavior that men hate the most in the early stages of a relationship. If you start a serious relationship, he will think you are just throwing a tantrum, but if you do these things in the early stages of a date, it means you will repeat the same trick in the future.

6. Don't tell a man how long you'll date before you go to bed with him. Telling him, "I never sleep with a guy unless we've been dating for at least a month, that's my rule," won't make him think you have particularly high morals. If the other person is too aggressive, you can just say, "I wish we had waited longer."

7. When a man brings up something you have no interest in, please don't say something like "I don't watch TV, I've never seen that show." You could try saying, "I've heard of that show but I haven't seen it. Why is it so interesting?"

8. If a man keeps talking about himself, don't immediately assume he's self-centered. Maybe it's because you answered his question too briefly, and the subsequent silence made the other person uncomfortable. You can say something interesting to resolve the awkwardness.

9. If you just have a simple meal, he should call you the next day to thank you for your company. But if the date is one where he spends more than $700 on tickets or something else (play, opera, concert, wine tasting, movie), you can call or email him the next day to thank him. Whether you want to continue going out with this person or not, this move will make you look very stylish.

10. If you have a good impression of a man, then ask him a question about him or his life. Asking him a question shows that you have some interest in his life and that you are patient enough to let him answer it.