Whether in the East or the West, men seem to lack the concept of "afterplay" during sex. A recent survey in the United States shows that after sex, 32% of men immediately lie down to adjust their breathing or smoke, 17% of men fall asleep quickly, 14% of men immediately get up to go to the toilet, 9% of men take a shower, 65% of men will find something to eat or drink after these activities, and 2% of men are ready to start sexual intercourse again. A survey conducted in Japan also found that about 40% of men did not show any tenderness to their wives after having sex. However, from a medical point of view, after a man ejaculates, the congestion of his penis will weaken within 5-10 seconds and return to normal within 30 minutes, while the congestion in a woman's pelvic cavity will exist for a long time and will not completely subside until 4-6 hours after stopping sexual intercourse. If there is a lack of afterplay at this time, they will psychologically feel like they are "hanging in the air". So, what should couples do after sex? Experts found in the questionnaire that, in order of popularity from high to low, there is a lot to do after sex: hug. Most women like to lie in each other's arms after sex. They curl up in the men's arms and can continue to experience the satisfaction and joy brought by physical contact. Many men have the same need, which gives them the opportunity to continue to demonstrate their masculine strength. Experts believe that this method is most conducive to further deepening the relationship between men and women.
1. Conversation After sex, many women also like to chat with their partners, or reminisce about the wonderful feelings that just passed, or talk about some topics between the two of them. Experts believe that after sex is the best time for both sexes to communicate about love. However, sex experts remind women that it is best to start the conversation by praising their partner's sexual ability. This will make men feel extremely satisfied and will not make them fall asleep easily, which will help keep the sexy and warm atmosphere going.
2. Massage Mutual massage between partners allows the two to continue to maintain physical contact and enjoy the wonderful feeling brought by skin-to-skin contact. However, women should be careful not to stimulate men's genitals during massage, and should focus on making both parties feel comfortable.
3. Shower Many men say that after having sex, the most enjoyable thing to do is to take a bath with their lover. In the steamy bathroom, the two can continue to admire each other's bodies and caress each other. Hot water can also stimulate blood circulation and relieve men's fatigue. |
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