The pleasures of sex for couples

In today's society, many young people ask this question: what should a high-quality sex life be like? Some say that it should be a harmonious combination of psychological and physiological aspects; others say that it is necessary to achieve orgasm. These statements are all correct, but not comprehensive. Currently recognized high-quality sex includes the following aspects: starting with mutual affection, with sufficient communication, pleasant foreplay, and a hard and lasting erection as a basic guarantee. After sex, both parties can reach orgasm. This is a satisfying sex life. Now you know what the normal state of sexual life is.

Sexual intercourse between husband and wife should be something that both of them want to do at the same time. If there is no desire but physical union, it is a great insult to human nature and such a life will not produce love. In the early days of a marriage, the wife often agrees to her husband's persistent demands even though she is a little hesitant. If a couple has this tendency, in principle the husband should have moderate self-control and the wife should encourage her passion and always strive to have a sex life that is voluntary for both parties, so that they can achieve a happy marriage.

Since the honeymoon period is an important stage for cultivating the wife's orgasm, both people who are beginning their married life need to have a correct understanding of this point. In order to enrich women's sex life after marriage, awaken their sexuality, and reach orgasm soon, certain conditions must be met during sexual intercourse.

Orgasm is the peak of sexual pleasure, which lasts only three to eight seconds. For men, except for the phenomenon of ejaculation, the physiological phenomena of both men and women are the same, and there is no sexual difference. If someone has never experienced orgasm, to understand the physical and mental reactions during orgasm, they can just imagine the most similar phenomenon (such as sneezing); the time is very short, the nerves and muscles are extremely tense, and then they release explosively, with a sense of pleasure and liberation. When they cannot fully release, the body and mind will retain an unsatisfied desire. These two phenomena are very similar, the only difference is that orgasm is a whole-body reaction centered on the genitals.

The speed and intensity of reaching orgasm are related to the degree of physical and mental stimulation the woman has received prior to that. If the physical and mental stimulation is insufficient or inappropriate, it is naturally impossible to reach sexual climax, and you will remain in the excited state during sex. The body and mind will continue to be in a state of dissatisfaction. This is the biggest reason for a happy marriage, not only for the husband but also for the wife to have an orgasmic sex life.