6 misunderstandings that ruin romance and ignite conflicts between couples

Some people think that as long as couples love each other enough, they will not argue about anything. But even tongues and teeth can quarrel sometimes, so how can two people with independent thoughts not quarrel?

2. “Telepathy” is important:

People who hold this view mistakenly believe that a couple can understand each other's meaning with just a glance. If I have to tell my partner what I want, it means he or she doesn't love me enough.

3. Your partner will never change:

Once there is a first hurt, there will be a second one - this is true. But this reality is based on the premise that you don't communicate well. As long as we are willing, we can think about our partner, do something for him/her, or even change ourselves.

4. Every sex should be perfect:

Almost no one can get a wonderful and satisfying feeling every time they have sex. In fact, sex is affected by many factors. Most of the time, one partner is unable to achieve orgasm or pleasure during sex.

5. Men and women cannot truly communicate:

The reason you have this misunderstanding is that you don't have the correct communication method and don't know how to talk to your partner.

6. A good marriage cannot have flaws:

In reality, relations between the sexes are by no means "either this or that". Harmonious happiness and contradictory entanglements always alternate.

Many people have had the above thoughts. They stubbornly believe that true love should take its course. Therefore, as soon as a problem arises during a relationship, they become at a loss, and will not solve the problem actively and constructively, and may even prefer to end the relationship. This is really a bit of a case of throwing the baby out with the bathwater. It is normal to encounter friction when getting along with each other. Only by constant adjustment can the relationship become more stable and faithful.