The minefield that women must never touch in bed

When it comes to sex, many women feel they know the ropes and how to please their partner. But in fact, some unconscious sexual mistakes may have put your sex life in jeopardy. Below are some of the most common sexual mistakes made by women. We have provided ways to avoid them and help women enjoy sex better.

Mistake 1: Faking an orgasm

The number one reason women fake orgasms is to please their sexual partners. But faking an orgasm can have many negative effects, such as causing your partner to mistakenly believe that the current pattern is the most ideal and continue to do so. If things go on like this, it will become increasingly difficult for women to reach a real orgasm, and pseudo-orgasms may even become the norm. Once the man finds out, it may hurt the relationship.

How to avoid it: Be conscious of being real and honest about how you feel during sex, and let your partner know that through constant adjustments, you can enjoy a true orgasm.

Mistake 2: Being completely naked

Exposure does not bring sexiness. Too much exposure may bring negative psychological effects and even make men lose interest in sex. On the contrary, men prefer the feeling of being elusive.

How to avoid: Don't be naked in front of him. Wear sexy lingerie and a loose pajamas or silk skirt on the outside, which will be just enough to attract his attention.

Mistake 3: Blaming himself when he can't get an erection

When a partner cannot achieve an erection, a woman may feel that she is not attractive enough and may even doubt the man's love for her. In fact, there are many reasons why men experience erectile problems.

How to avoid this: Give him more encouragement and care, allow him more time to build up his confidence, and accompany him to consult a doctor if necessary.

Mistake #4: Comparing Him to Other Men

It's not a good idea to compare him to other men, either in person or secretly in your mind. Research shows that recalling past sexual relationships can affect how you feel about yourself in the present.

How to avoid it: When your mind starts to wander to other men, try to stop thinking about them and focus on your new partner.

Mistake 5: Thinking Men Need More Sex

Women always think that men are "lower body" animals who think about sex all day and like more sexual stimulation. In fact, men’s sexual needs are not higher than women’s.

How to avoid: Don’t always guess his sexual needs, and don’t worry about not being able to satisfy him. Fully express your ideas so that both parties can be satisfied. Combining sex and love is also what men want.

Mistake #6: Not Saying What You Want

Many women have their own sexual needs and preferences. For example, a certain posture makes it easier to reach orgasm, or a certain caress makes them more excited, but they are often reluctant to express it and instead wait for the other party to develop it.

How to avoid: Nothing can stop you from enjoying sex. Find a suitable opportunity to express your ideas and try boldly. Your sex life will be more passionate.