The difference between normal sex life and masturbation

Masturbation is a normal physiological phenomenon. It means relying on one's own ability to solve sexual distension, vent sexual energy, meet one's sexual needs, and obtain pleasure and comfort from sex.

Masturbation mainly focuses on the direct or indirect stimulation of the sexual organs in various ways, and eventually reaches the process of climax (ejaculation). It mainly includes masturbation directly performed by hand, or the use of instruments to assist "sex", both of which achieve climax and sexual satisfaction by directly stimulating the reproductive organs.

Sexual life of couples refers to fixed or irregular sexual contact to satisfy their sexual needs, including hugging, kissing, caressing, sexual intercourse, etc. Sexual life is not limited to sexual intercourse. Sexual life is an important part of the life of a couple and is necessary for human survival and reproduction. The wedding is the beginning of sexual life, and both men and women need to understand some common sense about sexual life. Mutual respect and love, equal treatment, mutual consideration and cooperation between husband and wife are the basic psychological conditions for a satisfactory sex life.

However, the biggest difference between masturbation and sexual intercourse is that during sexual intercourse you are "communicating" with the opposite sex, satisfying each other, and pleasing each other. After ejaculation, you do not feel any guilt or emptiness, and you do not have any psychological burden. Moreover, the relationship between you and your sexual partner is further strengthened. You feel that the woman has been conquered by you, which brings you a great sense of security. You feel that it is worth it, so you feel satisfied and relaxed.

Masturbation will cause certain psychological obstacles, and masturbation will create a mental burden that is difficult to extricate oneself. Especially some people who masturbate will feel guilty and self-blame, and often want to correct it, but it is difficult to control themselves under the spontaneous physiological impulse. The desire to do good is frustrated, leading to mental damage.

During sexual intercourse, because of the full involvement of body and mind in exercise, the body feels tired, and the nerves convey the message of rest. Masturbation is a local exercise and is not tiring. After masturbation, you will not feel very tired or want to rest, and you may even want to do it again afterwards. You will feel that your strength is not fully used up, and you feel that you cannot get 100% of the pleasure, and you still remain in a state of congestion. Now is the time to test you. If you continue to masturbate excessively, it will cause serious harm to your whole body and mind.

So there is still a difference between masturbation and sexual life, but some people choose to ignore it for the sake of pleasure, or they do other things later for masturbation. When this cycle goes on again and again, it becomes more than just masturbation.