The mysterious psychology of men and women who have sex for the first time

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, there will be a "needle" in your heart when you have sex for the first time. Many people will have an inexplicable fear of sex. Let's take a look at what mysterious psychology exists.

Men's psychology during first sexual intercourse:

For men, the impulse of first sexual intercourse is often strong and difficult to control. In most cases, the man's orgasm has ended, but the woman's sexual desire has not yet been aroused. In addition, the rupture of the hymen will cause the woman to feel some pain, which further aggravates her nervousness. Especially for the first sexual intercourse before marriage, it is more difficult for the woman to feel pleasure due to the restrictions and interference of objective conditions. Therefore, the first sexual intercourse may bring a sense of impulse and possessive satisfaction to the man, but not happiness to the woman. Some women are even afraid of sexual intercourse because of this, but they cannot explain the reason, so both parties become suspicious and uneasy. As a result, premarital sex not only failed to deepen the relationship between the two, but instead increased many psychological barriers, leaving both parties confused.

The psychology of women having sex for the first time:

For women, the sense of loss of chastity and self after the first sexual intercourse is a hidden psychological factor that causes women to fear premarital sex. It takes about 10 years for a girl to enter sexual development at the age of 13-14, develop sexual awareness, and get married in her 20s. During these 10 years, the woman not only maintained her chastity but also developed a complete sense of self-reliance and an independent personality. This concept of chastity that has been entrenched in a woman's heart for as long as 10 years cannot be changed all at once. Even though some women may be motivated to break free from the shackles of traditional concepts at the time, the concept of chastity hidden deep in their hearts will suddenly become clear afterwards, making them feel fearful and uneasy, and showing a strong sense of dependence, fearing that the other party will alienate themselves. As long as the man is a little negligent or his enthusiasm wanes, the woman will feel anxious and lost. Men in their first love often have no idea of ​​this psychological change after tasting the "forbidden fruit", and they don't know how to mediate.

Therefore, young men and women in love, in order to protect their love and for the happiness of their future marriage, must not be ignorant and rash and rush to taste the "forbidden fruit".