8 signs that you are drifting apart

It is not easy for a man and a woman to maintain their love for a lifetime, because managing a relationship is not as simple as words. Life after marriage becomes dull and it will no longer be as passionate as at the beginning. Even simple hugs and kisses may seem a bit redundant. When two people are far apart in their hearts, they will feel far away even if they sleep together. Did you know? These 8 signs show that you are drifting apart.

No more sweet talk

As we all know, if you say sweet words to your wife, add some teasing and humorous elements, and praise her whenever possible, the relationship between husband and wife will be easier. The way you speak to your spouse is one of the factors that determine whether your relationship is harmonious or not. There are many ways to express a meaning, it all depends on how you say it. If you're no longer interested in sweet-talking your partner, that's a bad sign.

Particularly keen on social activities

Both of them were busy attending various dances or gatherings among friends to avoid close contact between them. When the two of them are alone at home, they always leave the TV on and are reluctant to talk much.

The clothes you wore on the first date no longer fit

A study in the United States revealed that among 2,500 women interviewed who claimed that their marital relationships were disharmonious and unhappy, each woman gained an average of 54 pounds in the 10 years after marriage. Psychologist Richard, who conducted the survey, said: "For some women, weight gain can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for other women, it can protect themselves from unnecessary sexual harassment, and of course their husbands will also be less interested in them."

No more gentle touch

There are many understandable and legitimate reasons for couples to have less sex, such as having a new baby, work pressure, mental stress, illness, etc. But if the other person remains indifferent for several months, then there is big trouble, which means that an invisible wall has been built between your hearts. If this continues, the home will no longer be a home.

I am too embarrassed to put a photo of two people on the table.

There are no photos of you together in the room. Even if there are, they are haphazardly placed among the miscellaneous items under the bed, covered with dust. At this time, you need to reflect on yourself.

Are you quietly waiting for the day to leave?

"Sometimes I want to leave him. But I never dare to think too much about it, because I don't know how others will see me. It makes me feel very embarrassed, so I can only blame myself for daydreaming and not paying attention to him." If you often have such thoughts, your marriage is in danger.

Not willing to take a long vacation with your partner

Vacationing together at a tourist destination is an enviable and beautiful thing. But if you only take short vacations, it means you don't want to stay too long with your partner, which can sometimes be a sign of a relationship problem.

The two no longer quarreled

"That's the worst sign," said Miss Li. "Couples who quarrel all the time are more likely to live together than those who are sulking. Quarreling at least shows that you still have passion and the courage to communicate sincerely. And that kind of lazy and cold silence is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two kinds of quarrels between couples: one is angry, and once the anger disappears, everything will be peaceful; the other is mild, at this time it is too late to turn back and it is irreversible."