What kind of women do cheating men like to have as their lovers?

Secondly, he likes to find a woman who complements his wife as his lover. Some people say that when you look at a man choosing a wife, you look at his taste; when you look at a man choosing a lover, you look at his nature. This is absolutely true. For many married men, when they cheat on their wives and find a lover, most of the time they are looking for a woman with a different personality from their wives. If his wife is too strong, he will definitely find a gentle woman as his lover; if his wife is too shrewd, he will definitely find a confused woman as his lover; if his wife is stingy in every way, he will definitely find a generous woman as his lover. You don't need to doubt it, men are like this, what they want is adjustment and supplement outside of marriage.

Third, he likes to find a pure and innocent girl as his lover. When we talk about a girl's "purity", we simply mean that the girl has a clean and pure mind. After all, pure and innocent girls always give people a lovely feeling. They believe in the beauty of love and the warmth of the world. More importantly, innocent girls will arouse men's desire to protect them. Men like such girls because of the typical "old cow eats young grass" mentality. The reason is that such girls are simple-minded and do not have so many schemes. They are not concerned about money or status. Their devotion makes men feel a sense of mission without having to take any responsibility. And this is exactly what men are most afraid of paying in extramarital affairs.

Fourth, he likes to find a charming woman as his lover. Compared with pure girls, charming women are also the type that men like to look for after marriage. After all, the word "charm" cannot be forced on a woman unless she reaches a certain age and has a certain amount of experience. This kind of woman is different from the pure and ignorant girl, and different from the woman who still has charm. They are like dancing and flying butterflies, revealing maturity and confidence in their every move. They know how to win over men in extramarital affairs, how to get emotional care from men that is not available in marriage, and what the men in front of them want from them. This kind of terrifying destructive power that is perfected by these women is exactly why men like them.

Of course, what kind of woman a man likes to find as a lover after marriage depends on his environment and circle of friends, and varies from person to person. What I am talking about is something common among people: “needs, trade-offs, and sharing”. To put it bluntly, when a married man cheats, he simply wants to get the feelings and sexual experiences that he does not have in marriage from the woman outside of marriage. Generally speaking, men will quickly return to their original mental state after getting what they want. As for what kind of woman a man likes to find as a lover after marriage, it depends entirely on the man’s inner “needs” at the time and has nothing to do with whether the woman is good or bad. After all, when men have extramarital affairs a lot, it is because they are influenced by the environment and popular concepts, and there is no real affection.