There are three benefits for men to play ambiguity with women

Men pursue ambiguity just like women pursue fashion, mostly just for temporary novelty and pleasure. For men, this kind of vague emotional game may just be an embellishment of boring life. You know, no matter how beautiful a marriage or how good a love is, after a long time, it will always become calm and even boring. Men are naturally restless animals. The bold and wealthy ones began to think about finding a lover or confidant to show off. But for most ordinary men, "colorful flags flying and the red flag standing firm" is an unattainable dream. They do not have the courage nor the financial strength to maintain such a dangerous game, so they fall in love with the game of ambiguity which cannot be regarded as cheating.

For men, playing with ambiguity has three major benefits:

First, safety.

No matter how affectionate you are, how much you exchange glances, how you flirt, or how much you occasionally use body language, as long as it is not inappropriate, it will not cause too much stimulation to the people or environment around you. No need for promises, no need for conclusions, no need to worry about leaving any handles, and you can retreat at any time. When you are immersed in it, your imagination can run wild, and when it is over, it can be like a dream, without any trace.

Second, economy.

What makes men most secretly happy is that they don’t have to worry about damaging their wallets when playing with ambiguity. A clichéd compliment, a rose perhaps picked up on the roadside, will do the trick.

Third, beauty.

Once a relationship is no longer related to money and commitment, it either becomes extremely pale or extremely beautiful. Just like light snowflakes, although they cannot see the sunlight, they have a kind of fragile and floating beauty. If open and aboveboard love is like a fluorescent lamp that illuminates your daily life, then ambiguous emotions are like a flickering candle flame. This little candlelight is far from enough for warmth, let alone illumination, but the swaying light that seems to fade out yet flickers on is particularly touching, and leaves room for unbridled imagination.

Generally speaking, if a man chooses to be ambiguous, it means that he has not foreseen the right candidate. Before the right candidate appears, he always hopes to have an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, a close relationship with him, and even make her think that you like him too. This means that you can enjoy a certain kind of care and emotion. As for why you don't want to go further, the reason is very simple. If you go further, it will hinder yourself from finding someone you think is really suitable. So when someone you really like and want to date appears, no matter how good you are with that ambiguous person, you can tell the person you like that you are single.