The secrets between women, men should not read

Don't blame me for saying this in a roundabout way, because I have seen it a lot - too many women who were smart and independent before marriage, but after marriage, when they have a husband, they lose themselves. No matter how chauvinistic he is, he won't like a "shadow" wife!

The reason why I list the following eight points is that I don’t want to see you crying and crying when he dislikes you... Now, you have to listen carefully!

1. You may not know how to do housework, but you must know how to spend money

Reason: You don’t know how to do housework, so your husband is unlikely to find a lover to come home to do the housework; you don’t know how to spend money, so your husband is more likely to find a girl to help him spend it.

2. You can not wear makeup, but you can not not buy a full set of cosmetics

Reason: If you don't wear makeup, you can say that you "dislike the color of powder", but if you don't have a full set of cosmetics, it means that you are not mentally prepared to "show off" at any time.

3. You may not like shopping, but you must dislike shopping

Reason: If you don’t like shopping, it means you are mature and have your own unique taste in shopping; if you don’t like shopping, it only means you have no originality and don’t love life.

4. You can choose not to take money, but you can’t choose not to work

Reason: "Work" here includes freelance work and charity work. If you take money, it is your ability; if you don’t take money, it is a virtue of dedication. Only by engaging in social work can one have social status. Never believe a man who says to you, "Come home and I will support you" (I can support you, but I can't let you go home!). He just wants to slowly train you into a typical shrew, so that he can despise you in the future.

5. You can have less gatherings, but you can’t stop keeping in touch with your friends

Reason: Not getting together often may be because everyone is busy with work; but if you don’t keep in touch often, your husband will become complacent and think he is the only one for you. Men are always greedy. Once he becomes "the only one", it's time for him to ask for a "salary increase".

6. When your husband goes out to have fun, you can set no time limit, but you must check on him

Reason: If you set a time limit too tight, it will inevitably put pressure on your husband, making him feel that he is not having fun and may develop a rebellious mentality. However, if you give him too much freedom and don't even call him, your husband will feel that you don't value him. When men get together and receive a call from their wives, they will yell, "Look! She's here to check on me!" That's actually a sweet tone.

7. You can be unvirtuous, but you can’t help being spoiled

Reason: No matter how docile a man is, there is always a bit of machismo in his bones. If you communicate with him in a coquettish way, he will not think you are overbearing even if you are not virtuous. Instead, he will think you are cute and naughty, and he will be willing to be virtuous for you.

8. You can follow the above methods to be a woman, but don’t read them one by one to your man.

Reason: This is just a woman’s secret. Even if a man knows it, it is better not to point it out. If you point it out, which man will admit it? If your husband finds out your secret, you can pout and say to him: Husband, I do this because I don’t want to lose you!