Why do women become yellow-faced women after marriage?

Many married men are lamenting why their girlfriends who were fresh, gentle, considerate and skilled before marriage are gone, and have become nagging and having a very bad temper. The reason is not complicated. Most girls before marriage are pretty and lovely, and are loved by everyone. They are never involved in housework, cooking and other things. But things are different after marriage. Women have to deal with the daily necessities of life. They are almost responsible for all housework such as washing clothes and cooking. There is no time and energy to take care of your appearance and mood. This caused them to lose their former beauty, gentleness and virtue, and turned them into complaining and nagging women.

The sweetness of love becomes dull with marriage

Before marriage, during the dating stage, women can rely on instinct and subconscious reactions to do things that stimulate the secretion of oxytocin. Their trust in their partners is a heartfelt and natural act. However, as time goes by, the way they speak and act will change. In a long-term emotional relationship, if a woman expects to be able to maintain a natural and instinctive romantic feeling forever, she will inevitably be disappointed, because her partner will be under increasing pressure and he will not be able to always care for her as much as he did when they were in love. Likewise, a woman will not continue to feel as passionately about a man as she did when she was in love. After marriage, the feeling of being in love will gradually become dull.

After the honeymoon, various conflicts in the lives of newlyweds will gradually emerge. When women feel more and more pressure, they lose the feeling of love. Once the novelty of love wears off, they need to face the various problems in life more realistically. The pressure of life and work makes women no longer show consideration and care for men, but often complain and express dissatisfaction with them.

Women need their husbands' care and love before and after marriage

From the husband's perspective, his wife has changed a lot after marriage. In fact, she behaved no differently than any other wife. When a woman is in love with a man, she is happy every day and often expresses gratitude to the man to let him know her acceptance of the relationship. Once married, the wife does not know that her husband still needs her affirmation and gratitude, and thinks that it is the man's responsibility to do something to express his love for her. She had no idea that her husband wanted her to express more appreciation for what he did. When a man's support is appreciated, he will continue to give. If his partner doesn't respond noticeably to his support, he can easily lose motivation to give because he doesn't want to do something that won't make the woman happy.