5 best times for women to teach their husbands

It is said that a good woman is a good school. Men are careless and rough by nature. A wise woman should know how to grasp the opportunity to prune a man appropriately. Those good opportunities are once lost and never come again. If you miss one, you will miss one. When you miss all of them, there is nothing you can do except accept your fate. For a lifetime of happiness, when the opportunity comes, you should act when it is time. If you miss this opportunity, you will never get it again. If you want a man to be easy to use, then women should grasp the following five opportunities:

1. When you are unwell

It doesn't necessarily mean you have a serious illness. A cold, cough and fever are all illnesses. Women should not be too strong. You must show weakness when you need to. I have done things like washing clothes and cooking when I had a fever. In fact, it is not easy for men to think well of you. They usually think that if you can still buy groceries, cook and do laundry, it means you are fine. So, if you are a little woman at heart, don't pretend to be a big woman.

2. Pregnancy

A pregnant woman is the treasure of the family. No matter how strong a man is, he will definitely show his tender side when facing a woman's gradually bulging belly. While a woman enjoys a man cooking and doing housework, she should not forget to correct his bad habits. A friend seemed very disdainful of this. She said that men do this entirely for the children. Well, that's true, but the child is in your belly. The child has not been born yet. You and the child are one. Being good to the child is good to you. At this time, praise the man more, and he will be more motivated to be a good husband.

3. When you agree to marry him but have not yet obtained the marriage certificate

You have agreed to a man's proposal, but have not yet obtained the marriage certificate. This period is when men are the most obedient. Because before you agree to marry him, you may not be able to see a lot of his true nature. This is not called cunning. In fact, we women are the same. When we are in love, we always show our best side in front of the person we love. After deciding to hold hands, or during the wedding preparation period, men will be more relaxed than before. This is the best time to discover and solve problems. To put it bluntly, if he cannot change those shortcomings and you definitely cannot tolerate them, then you still have a chance to turn back.

4. Children’s 3-year preschool

Many women complain that men never take care of their children, and do not care about their life or study. In fact, this is a habit they have developed. In the first two years after a child is born, it is mostly women who take care of the child. But when the child goes to nursery, women should leave some things for men to do, such as telling stories to the child, or accompanying the child to bookstores, or even playing with toys and building blocks. Men should not be worried about this and that as soon as they come into contact with the child. Men are not that stupid. That is his own child, and he has no need to teach his own child bad things. If a woman does not guide the man at this time, the man will be even less likely to take care of the child after he goes to school.

5. When a loved one passes away

Separation from life and death is a touching moment for everyone. During this extraordinary period, it is the best time for women to appeal to others’ emotions and reason with them, of course, this means after the initial sad days. In those days, if your sorrow is greater than his, then take the initiative to ask him for a shoulder to lean on; if his sorrow is greater than yours, then take the initiative to lend him your shoulder to lean on. After this, it is the best time to change many bad habits of men.