Women's 5 pet words can easily lead to breakups

Can everyone's love last forever? In fact, couples whose love is not easy to last long have some common catchphrases, and we should take them as a warning. A Japanese website published an article on August 17th summarizing some of the things women in "short-lived couples" often say to their boyfriends. Let's take a look.

1. You must marry me

"If someone says they will definitely marry me right at the beginning of a relationship and we're not in love yet, I think this will end the relationship quickly. Especially among student couples, many of them just like each other but don't want a serious relationship."

If you also broke up after only dating for a month or two, think about whether you have ever discussed the possibility of getting married with your partner. In fact, if you haven't thought about getting married and break up after dating for a few months, it can't be considered ending the relationship too quickly. And if you have made an agreement to marry the other person, you will feel guilty and sad when you break up.

2. Do you like me?

Frequently asking "Do you like me?" and "Do you love me?" are things girls will do involuntarily when they are in love. "I often ask him if he likes me, but for men who don't need to worry too much about changing their minds, asking this question all the time will have a counterproductive effect."

Many girls have made this mistake. In fact, frequently confirming that the other person likes you is also a sign of distrust of the other person. And if the other person really makes you feel uneasy from the beginning, it's no wonder that the relationship doesn't last long in the end.

3. Break up

"When I quarrel with my boyfriend, I often like to say 'let's break up', and in the end we break up very quickly, although this may be a result-oriented approach."

When girls are arguing, they may not be able to help but blurt out words like "break up", but if they do this often, the other person will feel very tired. Although breaking up after an argument is something that men and women can only do when they are very close, women will look like fools if they say this.

4. Unable to speak the truth

"Speaking of catchphrases, I usually can't tell my boyfriend the truth, and that's the most fatal thing. We are very nervous when we are together, and we only know how to praise each other and say nice things, which is very dangerous. But I have always been like that."

It is dangerous to just say things like "You are the most handsome" or "You are so cute" without criticizing the other person at all. As expected, the longest-lasting couples are those who can be relaxed and casual with each other and can talk about anything.

5. Remember to call me every night

"If you set rules like calling each other every day and going out at least twice a week when you just start dating, it will definitely not last long! Everything will rise and fall after reaching its peak."

Perhaps many people have deeply experienced this: the more passionate the love, the faster it breaks up. Women who like to set a lot of rules and maintain close contact would be better off changing their habits, as their partners may find it troublesome.