The reason why "leftover men" don't look for "leftover women"

Nowadays, leftover men and women have become the mainstream trend in society. However, what puzzles people is why leftover men don’t look for leftover women? Logically speaking, leftover men and leftover women should be the most suitable. However, this is often not the case. So, what is the reason, exactly?

According to common sense, if a "leftover man" considers a "leftover woman" as a potential marriage partner, then they are definitely "well-matched" in a certain sense. However, the reality is not as simple as people imagine. In real life, when "leftover men" are looking for marriage partners, they often consciously or unconsciously turn away from the "leftover women" who appear in their sight or who are strongly recommended to them by others with the mentality of "making others happy".

The so-called "leftover men" of course refer to those men who are older and have not yet married. As men, "leftover men" all have this masculine characteristic: the older they get, the stronger their inner rationality becomes; and the stronger their inner rationality becomes, the less likely they are to be swayed by their own hidden instincts. This is most evident when "leftover men" are faced with the limited opportunities left to choose a romantic partner.

First of all, the first thing that a "leftover man" thinks of when facing a "leftover woman" is: since the other party is a "leftover woman", she must have been screened by many men before. Since all the men before me gave up the precious opportunity to choose her as their wife, then she may not be suitable for me either… Even if the “leftover women” facing “leftover men” keep saying in order to fight for the precious opportunity to get married, it is because she screened many men, but none of them met her requirements, which led to her wasting her time and ending up in the situation she is in today…

Even if the "leftover men" hear such an explanation, will they change their ways and change their minds? I'm afraid it's unlikely! Which man in the world is willing to keep a close eye on a woman who should have been married to another man but was not, and who has very high requirements for her future husband? Even if such a woman is a "middle-class leftover woman" who owns a house and a car and still has charm. This is the "competitive mentality" of "leftover men" when choosing a wife that always makes "leftover women" feel incredible and difficult to understand!