Why can't men lift their "third leg"?

Nowadays, many people are complaining about the lack of satisfaction in their married life, because men can never get it up during sex, which makes many people very helpless. What is going on? Why can't men stand up? If we put aside diseases, what affects the sex life of couples? Let me tell you about it below!

1. One or two years before and after marriage

Before and after marriage, both men and women are in a stage of greater emotional fluctuations. Most of today's young couples are only children and have grown up being doted on by their parents. They are rather self-centered and mostly don't consider the other person, often quarreling over trivial matters.

The reason is that both sides do not know how to compromise. The two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a man, you should be magnanimous and dare to say "sorry" first when there is a conflict to avoid the intensification of the conflict. This will have a positive effect on your own health and the relationship between both parties. The woman should also understand the pressure the other party is under and be gentle and considerate to him.

2. No sexual desire

When men reach a certain age, their passion for sex begins to wane, and more often than not they start to stop thinking about sex. That’s why many women start to complain during sex. These are the important reasons why men cannot get an erection. During sex, how can we make your sexual partner feel desire? The editor recommends that you use Durex Huanjue Private Firming Dumbbells. Through the combination of light and heavy dumbbells, combined with customized advanced training tutorials, it helps women find the pelvic floor muscle training method that suits them best. In the easy and effective pelvic floor muscle training, they can hold on to their inner beauty and become sexy and firm women again. Stimulate men's sexual desire and make him want sex.

3. About ten years after marriage

"After sleeping in the same bed for 20 years, it is inevitable to have some 'aesthetic fatigue'." A couple has been married for twelve years and their child is in the third grade of elementary school. In the first two years of marriage, the thing the husband looked forward to most every day was to get home from get off work early to be with his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began to live a life of going out early and returning late. The woman did not take care of herself after giving birth, so her figure was out of shape. She also did not pay attention to the care of her facial skin, making her look old and lifeless. Faced with a wife who is no longer as beautiful as she used to be, he finds life boring and has no interest in sex. Sexual activity that used to happen more than twice a week turned into less than once every half a month.

If a couple has sexual disharmony and their skin contact with each other becomes less and less, they must work hard to create an atmosphere of love and communicate their feelings of love in a timely manner. Couples who work in the same unit are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue because they are together at work and at home day and night. To overcome the boredom between couples, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich their sexual life and regain the feeling of being in love. Even if he is tired at work, a man should try to help with housework, go grocery shopping, go shopping, go on picnics, play ball, and watch movies together to relive the feeling of dating. Women also need to keep their image fresh. Changing your clothes frequently and trying your husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to him.

4. You are in menopause

A couple had been in love for more than 30 years. However, their sex life started to become unsatisfactory since some time ago. The wife found that her husband was just perfunctory every time, so she suspected that he had an improper relationship outside. She often checked his underwear and eavesdropped on his phone calls... In order to save the relationship that was on the verge of breaking up, they decided to go to the hospital together for a check-up. The examination revealed that both the man and the woman had menopausal syndrome. After treatment and strengthened communication, their relationship returned to normal.

Both parties should learn to understand and respect each other, and learn more about the characteristics of each other's natural physiological changes. Respecting your lover’s interests and hobbies is the glue that enhances the relationship between husband and wife. In the process of mutual respect and adapting to each other's interests, what is gained is an increase in common language and a deepening of the relationship between husband and wife. If a problem occurs, you should go to the hospital to see if it is an organic problem. If it is a psychological problem, the couple can try to create a sense of freshness and relive the romance and warmth of the past by using the methods mentioned above.