Kissing skills

For people who are in their first love, kissing is the best way to express the love between two people. For men and women who are in love, kissing is a way to better warm up the relationship between the two. For couples, kissing is the beginning of sex life and the beginning of romance. Of course, there are skills to kissing between two people. Only by mastering the relevant skills can the love between two people become sweeter.

Kissing is different from making love. There are some things to pay attention to when kissing, and there are many people who don’t understand them. In addition to not opening your eyes when kissing, there are a few other things you should pay attention to. Some women stand there in a daze, with their hands hanging stiffly when kissing. Her boyfriend is like kissing a model in the window. Just imagine how he feels.

You should hug him too, of course! There is no specific rule on how to place your hands when hugging. For example, if he is about the same height as you, you can gently put your arms around his neck. If he is much taller than you, you can put your hands behind his back and hug him. The dumbest way to kiss is to just raise your lips and then stand there stiffly . How can he kiss you like this?

Judging a person's character by his kiss

If your new boyfriend always walks very close to you, and ridicules you when you try to keep your distance: " If you are so scared of me, why do you have to stand across the street from me?" When you are alone together, he always stays very close to you, and he can't wait to take your first kiss before you even hold hands , and he kisses you roughly, as if he wants to suck your teeth into his stomach. You feel like a weak and helpless lamb, and the other person is a hungry wolf with blue eyes. There is no tenderness or sweetness, only possession and strength. If such a kiss makes you sick, you should push him away with all your strength and leave angrily. After that, no matter how much he apologizes or explains, you should not change your mind. You have to trust your intuition. Such a man is usually very selfish and only considers his own feelings when doing things. He only thinks about conquering women , but doesn't know how to appreciate them; he only knows how to enjoy caresses, but doesn't know how to be considerate. Such men generally have low character.

How do men like to kiss?

"The Art of Husband and Wife Communication", "Make Your 365 Days Beautiful" and "The Complete Guide to Husband and Wife Sex" are all recently published "teaching and preaching" books on improving the love life of couples. These books discuss the necessity of communication between couples and talk about sex techniques. However, these books ignore the most convenient and interesting way of communication in a couple's relationship: kissing.

Kissing is a way for men and women in love to convey their unspeakable feelings to each other. It is a body language that is expressed verbally but condenses strong sexual information. Long, slow, deep or passionate kiss, no matter which one, can give people a spiritual shock and romantic feeling.

According to a survey, men and women in love all desire to kiss without exception. For most men, they not only remember the details of their first kiss with their lover or wife, but they also hope that the sweet kiss will always accompany them in their emotional life . Men like the feeling of physical and mental honesty when kissing, but they also have some small "taboos" during the kissing process . Understanding men's kissing habits is the best way to strengthen the relationship between the two parties.

How to use a kiss to express your love and affection. The hateful thing is that no one is willing to break through that thin layer of gauze, which is really frustrating! How to express your love to that idiot? Of course, it is through kissing! Don't think that kissing is simple. A kiss can be a quick taste or it can be inseparable; a kiss can be lingering or it can be passionate.

Moreover, a truly skilled kiss does not necessarily leave a "I was here" mark on the other person's body or clothes. The kiss that makes the other person most intoxicated is the "kissing but not kissing" style! Mastering the following five kissing styles will surely make your relationship advance by leaps and bounds and enter a new stage.

First, let's talk specifically about the French kiss. France can be said to be the birthplace of kissing. We often see their amazing kissing skills in movies. In the era when movies were still in black and white, there were already many kissing scenes in French films . I'm sure everyone has noticed that the way the French kiss is different from our experience. French kissing can be roughly divided into "kissing" and "embracing". Kissing is kissing with light contact on the mouth. A hug kiss is a vigorous kiss combined with a hug.

In short, although we are all aware of these behaviors, it is quite difficult to put them into action. Generally speaking, kissing is like dogs rubbing their noses together, but few people can do this without touching their bodies. When they kiss, they will move their bodies closer to each other. How do the French deal with this situation? Here are some French kissing tips:

Blow kiss

A kissing style in which you blow your breath toward the other person. But according to my friends, this is a kind of kiss that requires high skills. A friend told me, "If you accidentally blow air into a kiss during its climax, it can ruin the atmosphere ." Indeed, it can be dangerous if you're not careful. We unconsciously pass through our noses

If you try to force the air in through your mouth, you may cause the other person to suffocate and feel painful, so you must be careful . In addition, it is best not to use this kissing method after drinking or smoking. Because if you accidentally blow into the air at this time, the strong smell of alcohol and the aftertaste of cigarettes will be transmitted to the other person, causing her to refuse to kiss you again. Some men have the habit of using alcohol to get close to girls, and if you try this technique from the beginning, many problems will arise. "That guy loves drinking too much. I think he is just interested in my body." Based on girls' instinct, they will have such thoughts in their minds. So, when should this technique be used? When two people kiss

After a long period of time, when you keep kissing each other on the lips like an animal chewing the cud, you can change your technique. In other words, now is the best time to use this technique and make it work effectively. The man and woman start with gentle kissing and then embrace . After a long time, they slightly separate their lips, then touch each other again and gently blow their breath into each other's mouth . You might as well try it, maybe it can add some freshness.

Spiral Kiss

Put your tongue into the girl's mouth and kiss her in a rotating motion. Perhaps someone has already thought of this method, but it is difficult to master the technique. When using this method, you can't rotate and kiss the other person too casually. You must be able to match the girl's tongue with hers, otherwise she will never agree to your kiss again. Even if she doesn't suffer from tongue rejection syndrome, she will still reject your kiss, so you must kiss her in a considerate and gentle way. This is the secret.

Deep Kiss

This is a kiss in which the tongue is inserted deep into the other person's mouth, even reaching deep into the throat. When performing this kind of kiss, both men and women must open their mouths wide. But it must be noted that the jaw cannot be separated.

Sucking kiss

This is a kissing method that uses strong sucking force to suck the other person's lips hard. If a girl's lip mucosa is very fragile, bruises like blood beans will occur, so you must be gentle. Here I would like to advise all the men that when you see the other person's expression become painful, you must stop immediately, this is the only way to win the favor of girls.

Teeth kissing

Just like a dentist treating teeth, lick the other person's gums with the tip of your tongue. However, it requires great skill, otherwise it will be like treating periodontal disease, which will make people feel uncomfortable and must be treated with caution.

Vacuum kiss

A kissing style where you keep sucking each other. This kiss must take into account the lip shape of both men and women. Although the boy sucked desperately , he was unable to create a vacuum in the girl's mouth, mainly due to the shape of her lips. From a physics point of view , the combination of a girl's open mouth and a man's wide mouth is most conducive to this type of kiss. Its principle is like putting a big lid on a small hole, which can easily create a vacuum state and make the kissing atmosphere more intense. But what if the opposite happens, if the girl has a big mouth? In fact, it is very unlovable just by thinking about it. It is like a small dandelion covering a big sunflower. It is impossible to reach the state of vacuum. Therefore, before using this method , you must first understand the size of each other's lips and then decide whether to adopt it, so as to avoid difficulties during the process .

First of all, the occasion. If you and your girlfriend have never kissed before or have just started dating, you should find a place where there is no one or fewer people. You and your girlfriend will definitely feel embarrassed. It is recommended to do it under dim lighting, such as in a movie theater, a secluded place in the park, the office (of course, it should be your office alone) or home (the sofa in the living room, you don't have to go to the bed every time you kiss, so you don't have to dress up like xx).

My main recommendation here is to play it at home, preferably without anyone else around, and put an album of " Meeting" by Tsai Chin and Bobby Darby in the CD player (a very lyrical old song, definitely not sad, and the emotional atmosphere can make you more engaged) or "Warm Your Heart" by Aaron Neville (with a great rhythm and a sense of tension and relaxation). It would be perfect if you add a little pure red wine (with ice). Pure red wine has a little sour taste when you drink it, which stimulates your salivary glands, so that you will be fully moisturized when kissing. Moreover, alcohol can make you burst out with passion (don't get drunk too much when you are three parts intoxicated ), forget the shyness of the first time, and experience the taste of kissing more fully and perfectly! There is one more thing I don't need to say, home ? Haha! Understand it yourself!

If you are already an old couple, you might as well try something exciting, such as in a crowded place, such as a busy street, a shopping mall (the fitting rooms in the mall are actually very good), or a sightseeing elevator. The key is to be unexpected , bold and careful, and quit when you are ahead!

What I recommend is the sightseeing elevator. It is best if it is high-speed (not very fast). When the elevator rises and falls at high speed, you and your girlfriend will kiss in a dizzy environment. If you cooperate with your kissing skills, it will definitely bring great pleasure to both of you physically and mentally ! It’s just that the time seems a little short, which is not so good for those fans who like the long French kiss! Haha! Control it yourself! You can enjoy it up and down! There is no limit to the time of kissing! But it’s best to consider the consequences of kissing! First of all, you can’t be too impatient, you have to follow the steps slowly, and you have to have a sense of rhythm like playing basketball (damn, even basketball is involved). Don’t lick your tongue randomly and think that it’s done after a while. Girls will be angry!

First Step: Heart Kiss

This step is very simple, but since it is the first step, it is very important. You should kiss mm's forehead with your lips first (don't stick out your tongue, do you think you are Jordan? Others are handsome, but you are unlucky), make mm feel that she is the happiest woman. Pour all your love into this kiss, and mm will feel your love.

Your hands will naturally grab mm's shoulders. If it is the first time, mm's hands may be in a posture of pushing and blocking. Do you think it is an obstacle? Don't worry! Ignore it for now. Later, mm will naturally hug you. If mm still blocks you, I will ask you to get to the right place at the right time!

Next is the girl's cheek, both sides! Then the chin, at this time you can gently move your lips to the girl's lips and start kissing! This cross-shaped kiss has an extended blessing meaning. The careful girl will definitely be very happy if she understands it , and she will also be very devoted to the kiss!

Step 2 Lip Kiss

Lip kiss is a light kiss, also called dry kiss. As the name implies, you and your girlfriend press lips to lips at the beginning. You can touch your nose tip with your girlfriend's nose tip first, then let your lips touch each other and rub left and right, gently squeeze. The movement should not be too big, but slow, soft and lingering! Keep your breathing even, don't be quick, don't be so nervous that you breathe in your mouth! Hold your girlfriend's shoulders with your hands! You and your girlfriend should close your eyes to enjoy and imagine! (Don't look at your girlfriend, you can't see anything at this time, it's best to close your eyes and maximize your sense of touch)

Step 3 French Kiss

This is when the real kiss begins, and the previous ones can be said to be foreplay!

1. War of words

When you kiss your girlfriend, because her lips are still relatively dry, you will naturally think of moistening them with your tongue . You are right! Just do it when you think of it! You can move your tongue back and forth between her upper and lower lips, and then flick her lips with the tip of your tongue . When appropriate, you can clamp her upper or lower lips with your lips and suck them, and then use the tip of your tongue to stimulate and tease her. If she is happy, she will repay you in the same way. You can also bite her lightly with your teeth, but you must control the strength and don't let her feel pain! At this time, your hands can stroke from the shoulders to the back (shoulder blades), so that you and her body are in full contact. If her hands are still in a pushing and blocking posture, you should take the initiative to bring her hands to your waist, hug your waist, and then slowly return your hands to her back and hug her tightly!

2. Licking gums

Further beyond the lips is the gums of the front teeth. You can use the tip of your tongue to lick from the root of the gums straight up or down to the tip of the teeth. It will be a little itchy, so you can stimulate it from time to time. It is not suitable for frequent use, as sensitive girls will shrink back due to the itch.

3. Pick the jaw

As a boy, you should take the initiative! If you think the time is right, you should open the slightly open teeth of the girl completely, put your tongue into her mouth, and then move it around her upper jaw, pulling her closer from deep to shallow ( there is actually no displacement, but she will feel that she has merged with you), and then to the inner gums of the upper jaw and the inside of the front teeth! At this time , the girl can also do the same action at the same time, but it is a bit difficult, and the tongue cannot move flexibly left and right (silly! Don’t you move it back and forth?) and it’s a bit tiring!

4. War of words

Now that you have put your tongue deep into mm's mouth, of course you have to have a fierce battle with mm's tongue! At this time, the flexibility of the tongue is very important. You have to keep rubbing mm's tongue with your tongue to fully stimulate the nerve endings on your tongue . You can also go deep into the sides of mm's mouth, lick from the root of the tongue to the tip of the tongue, and then tease each other with the tips of the tongue. You can also put your tongue under mm's tongue, tease left and right or front and back, and it is better to tease from front to back, so that mm's tongue can be introduced into you.

In the mouth!

At this time, your hands can slide from the back to the waist of the girl (don't tickle her, or she will be choked by your saliva), and then touch her buttocks. On the buttocks, you can open your hands as wide as possible, grab her and lift her up. Don't move too much, be gentle! Be gentle! She is your girl, not your enemy! If there is a naughty girl who likes to bite or pinch you, just tickle her, but give me face and beat her to death. I will accompany you until you die! (Sometimes I have bisexual tendencies! Hahaha! Just kidding! I don't rpwt di!)

5. Tongue Sucking

If mm's tongue is seduced by you, or it comes over by itself, what should you do? (Don't tell me to just block it, mm will beat you even if I don't beat you) If it comes, then make the best of it, and if it comes, then fight it! Then use sucking ! When sucking, you have to use your tongue, teeth and lips flexibly to tease and stimulate mm's tongue. First, wrap your lips around your teeth to suck mm's tongue, leave a beautiful arc on mm's tongue with your tongue tip, then touch mm's tongue tip with your tongue tip, and then suck it into your mouth forcefully, and repeat this! You can also turn your head appropriately between swallowing and spitting, so that mm's tongue can get your comprehensive care! The use of teeth is that you can bite it when it is gentle to strengthen the stimulation of mm's tongue, but if mm is afraid of pain, don't do it too much.

Use force (Don't bite it too hard, this is not eating pig tongue!)

At this time, you can move your hands from the girl's hips back to her waist, and then stroke from her ribs to her shoulders, grab her shoulders and collarbones. If you are in a side head position, you can use both hands, one hand moves from her shoulder to her neck, and the other hand slides down from her shoulder to her waist or hips, and you can stay on her chest for a while! (It depends on whether she resists)

Kissing can always make the relationship between lovers more beautiful, especially if some necessary kissing can be done before sex, it will actually greatly guarantee improving the quality of sex life for both of them. Therefore, it is very necessary for lovers to pay attention to kissing skills.