What do you think about men who like to "enter the wrong door"?

About 30 to 40 percent of men have tried anal sex, but we cannot regard anal sex as a form of sexual deviance just because of this minority preference. This just means that he may like to challenge unusual habits, or express his infinite love for the other person, or just want to try some more intense actions.

Women's doubts

Q: My husband and I have always had a happy sex life, but he has always wanted to try anal sex. Recently, he has been asking for it. Is his love for anal sex normal? Is this behavior dangerous? What should I do?

Answer: Your husband's love for anal sex is basically not pathological, but there are indeed some physiological concerns: the anus is not as elastic as the vagina and can be easily torn, which greatly increases the chance of infection. The vagina is soft and elastic, and because of the presence of natural beneficial bacteria, it can protect it from bacterial infection, so the vagina is the safest way of sexual intercourse.

However, if both parties agree and use appropriate lubricants, anal sex can also bring different pleasures to sex life, but the first condition is that both parties can fully enjoy this form of sexual intercourse. I think you should talk to your husband, and if he emphasizes that he likes the tightness he gets during anal sex, you should explain to him that the vagina is actually best suited to most normal-sized penises, unless his penis is very small, and what he really likes may be the feeling of dominance and control he can enjoy during anal sex.

In recent years, the number of patients with intestinal sexually transmitted diseases has increased. The main cause is male homosexuality and heterosexual anal intercourse. Clinical manifestations vary...

If I were you, I would think carefully about the unequal distribution of power caused by this approach, after all, there are still many people who enjoy this difference. If you are not happy with this, you might as well tell him tactfully that you don't like this kind of sexual intercourse. If he insists on anal sex, I think you'd better find another man who respects your body and emotional responses.

Example: The doctor said that their illness was caused by anal sex, called "Intestinal Syndrome"...

Men's sexual habits

Do all men have certain sexual preferences?

It should be said that most men have certain habits. Usually these are things he doesn't think are very threatening. They pay great attention to the method of making love. The requirements of their sexual partners will control the ability of their sexual organs to a large extent. They are also very afraid of failure in "sexual arousal".

What are the special requirements of men?

The instinctive demand is to enter. Some positions may give them more stimulation, for example, some particularly like to touch a woman's breasts or look at her buttocks. Usually when they have more special requirements, they actually know very well what to do to maintain their sexual desire and keep their penis strong.

What to do when a couple doesn't have the same hobbies?

When the woman doesn't like certain actions, the man shouldn't insist. But of course the woman should not refuse every time, so as to avoid causing friction and infidelity between the two sexes.

Can love factors make the other party compromise?

If one party is asked to accept behaviors that the other party doesn't like and that may hurt his or her self-esteem, it may cause one party to dislike the other party's needs and refuse sexual behavior, ultimately leading to a breakup.

Do men prefer to take the initiative?

This is the feeling they want to ensure they get what they expect. There are also women who take the initiative, which is due to their maternal instinct. When a woman is in a passive position, it is easier for the man to control his personal feelings.

Ladies, please rest assured that a man's preference for anal sex does not necessarily mean that he has homosexual tendencies, and there is no direct correlation between the two. They just hope to have more sexual variety and enjoy more sexual happiness in bed.