What should you do if your husband and wife often quarrel? This is the right way to deal with it.

It is normal for couples to quarrel, and a normal married life also requires occasional quarrels, but frequent quarrels will affect the relationship between the couple. Both parties should resolve conflicts in a timely manner and communicate well. Couples should avoid the cold war when quarreling.

1. Face up to conflict

When a conflict arises between a couple, both parties must face up to the conflict, treat it calmly and rationally, and adopt a positive attitude to resolve it, rather than adopting a hostile or indifferent attitude.

2. Have confidence in resolving conflicts reasonably

Both husband and wife should realize that conflict is inevitable in life, and reasonable resolution of conflict is the bond that maintains a happy marriage.

3. Communicate in a timely manner

Couples who have good communication also have a higher quality of marriage life. Be considerate of each other, convey information clearly and unambiguously, and be an attentive listener.

4. Be careful about the right measure

Couples should not quarrel overnight, should not separate or file for divorce at the slightest provocation, should not "sexually punish" each other, should not bring up old issues, should not let relatives intervene, should not throw things, should not fight, and should not disparage the other party's family members. During a conflict, you should know when to strike a balance so as not to hurt the other party or affect the relationship between the two parties.

5. Look for the reasons within yourself

Always asking the other party to avoid conflicts through actions, while you yourself are constantly provoking "wars", it is inevitable that conflicts will occur many times. When a conflict occurs, if you are at fault, you must have the courage to admit your mistake. Therefore, looking for the reasons within oneself and strengthening one's own psychological training is the fundamental way to avoid conflicts.