Ranking of the most unhealthy things that couples do in their sexual lives

Sex life is essential for every sweet couple. But have you ever experienced a carefully planned romantic night being disrupted by something unexpected? For example, your husband is on a business trip, and you finally wait for him to come home, dress up carefully and wait for him to come back to make love with you. Unexpectedly, as soon as he got off the plane, he was invited by his friends to drink and returned home drunk. There are many such decadent things in life, and couples must try their best to avoid them.

Lack of foreplay

Failure index: ★★★★★

If there is a lack of foreplay in sexual life, the man cannot impress the other party, and the woman does not respond, then the vaginal fluid cannot flow out for lubrication; if the woman cannot impress the man, then she cannot get an erection; if he suddenly takes action at this time, not only will his actions be rude, but it will also easily cause the other party to be disgusted. Especially for people who have no sexual experience or have sexual trauma, it is easy to cause conflicts and pain.

Countermeasure: Foreplay, which ancient Chinese health experts called "drama", aims to prepare the body and mind for sexual intercourse, making it easier for both parties to reach orgasm. In addition to traditional hugging and kissing, sexual foreplay also includes massage and sweet talk. Modern sex medicine has discovered that the sexual response cycles of men and women are not synchronized. Usually, men's sexual impulses are quickly aroused by visual or auditory stimuli, while women's are relatively slow.

Noisy environment

Failure index: ★★★★

Sexual life needs to be filled with warmth, tenderness and romance. Imagine if there are noises outside the room, or the bed creaks during sex, or if several generations live in the same room, how can sexual desire be aroused and how can a happy sex life be achieved?

Countermeasure: It is very important to keep the indoor environment quiet and romantic before sexual intercourse. Both men and women must be kept in a relaxed and pleasant environment. A comfortable bed and a quiet room are necessities for a good sex life. Especially for women, because their sexual response cycle is slower than that of men, they are more easily affected by the surrounding environment.

Drunken sex

Failure index: ★★★

Many people like to have sex while they are drunk. They think that this will make them "more motivated". Moreover, after drinking, people's senses become dull and numb, which can prolong the time of sex. Little do people know that a little alcohol can cheer you up, but too much can ruin your sex life, and the quality of your sex life will be greatly affected.

Countermeasure: Thousands of years ago, the classic work of traditional Chinese medicine, "Huangdi Neijing", prohibited "entering sex while drunk". When drunk, people tend to act roughly and have difficulty correctly estimating the force they apply, which may cause harm to their partners. Although the excitability of the brain's nervous system is temporarily enhanced after drinking, sexual function is temporarily reduced, and sex is often hastily concluded. In addition, alcohol can not only ruin your sex drive, it can also ruin your sperm. If you become pregnant at this time, the child born in this situation may have health problems.

fatigue

Failure index: ★★

After a busy day, many people still want to have sex at night when they are exhausted. However, they do not know that it is difficult to achieve the best state in this situation, resulting in weak erections, weak ejaculation, etc., and a harmonious sex life becomes almost an unattainable thing.

Countermeasure: If you force yourself to have sex when you are tired, you will not be able to reach orgasm due to limited sexual arousal. Long-term tiring sexual life may even cause fear and boredom, which may lead to sexual apathy in some people over time. You can have sex after a good rest, or have comfortable sex after getting up in the morning.