Why do beautiful women tend to have disharmonious lives?

In some studies at home and abroad, researchers have found that women with beautiful facial features and good figures are more likely to have sexual dysfunction than other women of the same age, economic and cultural level, physical fitness and living environment. An important reason why beautiful women have a high proportion of sexual dysfunction is due to psychological imbalance in their marital life. Because of their natural beauty, they are particularly sensitive to marriage, love and their own beauty. Some trivial things that are considered insignificant by others can cause a storm in their hearts and affect their sex life. It is mainly manifested in the following five aspects:

1. Passive marriage:

In real life where power and material things are more important than love, many beautiful women either pursue power or are greedy for fame and fortune, and voluntarily or involuntarily marry people they don't like. Although sex life during the honeymoon may be harmonious due to physiological needs, as time goes by, sex life is often influenced or controlled by power and money.

Loveless marriages make these women gradually awaken and re-recognize themselves and their dignity as women. Under the premise that they cannot tolerate but have to endure this passive marriage, the psychological imbalance caused by the contradiction between physical needs and love needs also causes an imbalance in their sexual psychology.

2. Sexual harassment:

Everyone loves beauty. Beautiful women are easily pursued by men. Some people with poor ideology and moral character are like bees and butterflies when they see beautiful women. They harass them excessively, making them wary of men. Even if they have sex with their most beloved husband, they may experience sexual disharmony due to subconscious sudden changes. Moreover, beautiful women are more likely to be sexually assaulted. Once they lose their virginity or are humiliated, it is difficult for their wounded hearts to heal. The guilt suppressed in their hearts is often fully manifested in their sexual lives.

The sexual frigidity caused by these situations often makes the husband feel puzzled, thus causing suspicion and complaints, which in turn deepens the sexual frigidity of women.

3. Fear of pregnancy and childbirth:

Although a good figure is cherished by beautiful women, changes in body shape caused by pregnancy and childbirth are an inevitable fact. Because they are particularly afraid of getting pregnant, they are very nervous during sex, follow many taboos, and are often passive, which can easily lead to a disharmonious sex life.

Especially those women who have become pregnant due to contraceptive failure and have taken remedial measures will have a fear of pregnancy for a long period of time, and as a result, they will become emotionally unstable during sexual life, which will greatly affect the quality of their sexual life.

4. Fear of damaging one’s appearance:

Fatigue after sex and certain prejudices against sex make them fear whether sex will affect their appearance. They believe that the labor during sex and the fatigue after sex affect beauty in the same way that physical labor does, so they should control their sex life. In fact, a normal sex life will not add facial wrinkles, but will promote the secretion of female estrogen, increase skin elasticity and maintain beauty.

The pleasure brought by a normal sex life can keep the psychology in a good state. Women with harmonious family and harmonious sex life tend to age less easily.

5. Excessive sexual expectations:

Beautiful women are often complimented and easily accepted by others. Therefore, they usually get things done smoothly, have higher expectations for various things, and achieve better results. Even if a woman finds her ideal husband, and he is caring and affectionate to her, due to the particularities of sex and many unpredictable problems, such as the other party being busy with social engagements, tired from work, having a poor physical condition, mood swings, illness and many other reasons, it is sometimes difficult for him to meet women's requirements in sex. A failure in sexual life will make these women not only fail to care about the other party, but instead set high standards for the other party, just like their material and spiritual life, which will cause them to feel aggrieved.

Although this psychological accumulation of emotions will not quickly affect the relationship between husband and wife, it will sow the seeds for future sexual disharmony. The higher the sexual expectations, the easier it is to become sexually apathetic. Beautiful women should pay special attention to this when they are in favorable circumstances.