Ten tips to make love sweeter

1. Give the other person space.

Don't think that once you get married, the other person becomes your private property. Everyone plays a role in the family and is also an independent individual. You need to understand: if you pull the kite's string too tight, the string will break. Give the other person some space and cultivate your own hobbies. When your life is rich and colorful, you will not focus on the other person, and the other person will be able to enjoy the comfortable feeling that your relaxation brings him/her.

2. Don’t expect to completely transform the other person .

Everyone has their own lifestyle, interests and hobbies. Never impose your will on others. The correct approach is to change towards each other through communication, and the two people should slowly move closer to each other. Don't expect perfect fusion, but you will definitely find a point of convergence.

3. Learn to be grateful .

Don't think that just because he/she is the person closest to you, you can accept his/her efforts with a clear conscience. When you receive love from others, express your gratitude through words or actions. "No pain, no gain." Your gratitude is also a kind of contribution.

4. Be considerate of the other person .

People compare home to a safe haven. When he/she encounters unpleasant things such as work pressure, personnel disputes, etc., you should be considerate of the negative emotions he/she expresses.

5. Be humble to each other .

When there is a conflict between the two parties, they should calm down, consider the problem from the other party's perspective, and think about it from their perspective. This will help to seek common ground while reserving differences and resolve the conflict smoothly.

6. Arguing cannot solve the fundamental problem.

Some people believe that when there is a conflict between couples, a quarrel can vent their emotions and enhance their feelings. This is not actually the case, especially during an argument when both parties are emotionally agitated and often use hurtful words. Extremely harsh words are very damaging and not only fail to solve the problem, they can only accumulate hatred and lay hidden dangers for future sincerity.

7. Separate negative emotions from sex life .

Never bring negative emotions into your sex life, and don't use sex as a tool to punish someone.

8. Don't neglect your husband or wife .

After having a child, the center of a couple's life shifts, but don't focus all your attention on the child. In life, the husband and wife should be the center, and a family with three pillars is the most stable.

9. Don’t mention divorce too often

It is not a wise choice to threaten your partner by shouting about divorce all the time. No one likes to live under high pressure. Everyone has heard the story of "The Boy Who Cried Wolf". If it is told too often, it will lead to a crisis of trust between couples.

10. Stay away from the Cold War.

It is not terrible for a couple to quarrel, what is terrible is the indifference between both sides. The breakdown of many marriages begins with indifference. The Cold War cannot solve problems. This applies to international relations, but not to marital relationships.