Leaving a mark of love: the psychological reasons why women love to bite their boyfriends

Women are born to bite. I believe many boyfriends have this kind of doubts: Did they do something wrong? Why did they bite people suddenly? In fact, women are born with cat-like nature, and biting you is a manifestation of her love for you. Girlfriends always say the opposite of what they mean to their boyfriends.

A male netizen posted a question: "Women just like to bite people? It's strange. I've been with several girlfriends and I was bitten every time! Fortunately, they didn't bite me in the vital parts. I don't know what they think? Why don't I have the urge to bite them?"

Psychological analysis of women's love for biting their boyfriends

1. Appropriate and harmless "harm" is actually a proof of intimacy and a means to promote intimacy.

It's just like when you and your good friends complain about each other's shortcomings and embarrassing moments. The subtlety lies in this: I can "hurt" you, but you won't blame me. Moreover, the person who bites will not actually bite the target, thus creating a sense of trust. It's similar to this, sometimes men like to have a few punches with each other.

2. Compared to saying "I love you" or something like that, biting is more suitable for girls who are more reserved. Seemingly aggressive behavior is used as a "disguise" to express intimacy.

3. Compared to being gentle, being a little "tough" gives you a more coquettish vibe. Because you know the other person won't get angry, it's a mild "threat" - "Be careful or I'll bite you!"

4. When we were young, our sucking movements were similar to biting, and that was a period when we were very dependent on others. In the domestic cultural atmosphere, girls are more dependent on boys, rather than the other way around. So it can be seen as a reproduction and expression of a sense of dependence. I think guys don't bite girls that often.

5. “咬你” and “要你” sound similar, which may be a subconscious expression. However, this explanation is not appropriate for people who speak other languages. I don’t know about foreign girls.

6. Good bite texture.

The act of biting can lead to other interactions, which are all feedback from biting. These feedbacks are good feelings, so they can be seen as an incentive.

7. The bite force is very strong, giving a feeling of firmly grasping a person, expressing possessiveness and control.

8. Leave a mark.

Because you can see that you can leave a mark on the other person and see the result of the interaction. But that's not entirely true, because unless the bite leaves a scar, it's not permanent. This mark is more suitable for tattoos.