The most common sexual mistakes made by men and women

Sex is meant to be a fun, relaxing, and enjoyable interaction, but some common mistakes can ruin it. The following are the sexual mistakes that men and women are prone to make, as summarized by gender experts. They need to be avoided. Let’s take a look.

Mistakes women make

Error 1: Women are the "passive ones" in sex. A survey shows that 60% of men believe that "always making sexual demands will reduce their desire for sex." At this time, as long as women take the initiative, the situation will improve greatly.

Mistake 2: Wearing less is sexy. Sexiness has nothing to do with exposure. If exposure is considered sexy, then it is just low-level sexiness and cannot attract men with high taste. Many times, a woman's gesture, look, or even smile can arouse sexual desire in a man. This is mostly the result of her inner temperament and cultivation.

Mistake three: Men are “animals with lower bodies”. Just because men value sex doesn't mean they have no emotions. Researchers at the University of California found that, in fact, men are more eager to combine sex and love. They believe that sex is the best way to express feelings, and that achieving satisfaction together is their greatest hope.

Mistakes men often make

Mistake 1: Changing positions can give women more pleasure. Although there are more than a dozen sexual positions, it is best to use no more than three at one time. Changing body positions is mainly based on the differences in the sexual organs of both parties, and choosing the posture that is most suitable for each other. If you change positions too frequently and excessively pursue novelty and variety, not only will it fail to significantly enhance sexual feelings, but it will also infringe on the other person's personal dignity, even cause psychological harm, and weaken the emotional connection and trust between you and your lover.

Mistake 2: The bigger the penis, the more likely it is to be favored by women. The intensity of female pleasure does not depend on the size of the male's sexual organ. In fact, women can achieve orgasm by stimulating only 1/3 of the vagina. Women care more about intimacy and caressing than the size of the penis.

Myth 3: A woman’s screaming indicates an orgasm. Not every woman likes to scream. Panting and flushing are the best criteria for judging orgasm. About 20 minutes of foreplay can best get a woman into the mood.